Need legal advise for an unmarried couple with child

[insikman]

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Hello. I need a legal advise on the rights and obligations of the father of my child. We've been living together for two years now and we already have a one year old child. Now, we've been arguing a lot and been fighting not just verbally but physically as well. His attitude changed since he earned a lot higher than me. I am also working and earning a high salary but it just happened that now, his salary is higher. I guess its true that money changes people. Hilas na kaayo siya msturya. What more if wala koy trabaho. Basin tratuhon rako nga katabang. Anyway, I just want to ask if mag buwag mi, unsa ang mga rights nya sa bata and unsa ang terms sa financial obligations nya sa amo anak? He acknowledged our child as his. He is declared as the father in our child's NSO though we are not married. Just live in partners. I dont want my child to grow up seeing us always fighting. I know it might affect his psychological development. I hope there is someone here that can help me. Thank you!

[Scott Bernard]

Basic2x lang ako nahibaw an... basta minor pa ang bata bug-at ug custody ang inahan kaysa amahan. Plus ge angkon pa jud niya nga siya ang papa.

If dili na madala, you can file him charges of violence against women and / or children.

But then again, if pwede ma storyaan ug ma areglo ninyong duha, mao na ang mas maayo.... Wala pa gani ka ni sulti unsa ang ROOT CAUSE ngano ingana ang iyang treatment nimo.

Basin naa pod kay ka txt2x dinha or nagger ka, etc...

[teoding]

adto na nimo ang bata in case mag buwag mo. sa mama jud na. ang obligaion sa papa kay hatag money para milk, clothes and education, etc. pili-a jud ang pinaka mahal na gatas, sanina and school. para di nana mag hinilas ang imo live in partner sa iya sweldo kay ma hurot jud na. hahaha.

[salbahis]

Hello. I need a legal advise on the rights and obligations of the father of my child. We've been living together for two years now and we already have a one year old child. Now, we've been arguing a lot and been fighting not just verbally but physically as well. His attitude changed since he earned a lot higher than me. I am also working and earning a high salary but it just happened that now, his salary is higher. I guess its true that money changes people. Hilas na kaayo siya msturya. What more if wala koy trabaho. Basin tratuhon rako nga katabang. Anyway, I just want to ask if mag buwag mi, unsa ang mga rights nya sa bata and unsa ang terms sa financial obligations nya sa amo anak? He acknowledged our child as his. He is declared as the father in our child's NSO though we are not married. Just live in partners. I dont want my child to grow up seeing us always fighting. I know it might affect his psychological development. I hope there is someone here that can help me. Thank you!

1. You are not married so you are not obligated to stay with the guy
2. Ask for child financial support, if he refuse you can go to court and file a case. all the needs of the child will be supported, you can even request support hangtod pag skwela.
3. if he physically hurt you, get your self checked and get a medical certificate, and file a criminal case under R.A. 9262, he could go to jail if proven.
4. Ask a real lawyer coz im just a ex-legal researcher

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adto na nimo ang bata in case mag buwag mo. sa mama jud na. ang obligaion sa papa kay hatag money para milk, clothes and education, etc. pili-a jud ang pinaka mahal na gatas, sanina and school. para di nana mag hinilas ang imo live in partner sa iya sweldo kay ma hurot jud na. hahaha.

the court does not allow nga mag pili ang inahan kung unsay brand sa needs, it will be consulted to a pedia or a social worker then mao nay basihan sa financial support sa amahan...


kasagaran pud sa mga babay kay nagger then masuko nga but-an sa gusto... sa ako nabantayan nga ang babay gusto maoy mo control sa relasyon instead of both... this is just my observation...

[cardo]

Ay'g kaguol TS, the ball is with you all the way just be strong kung worst comes to worst.

[jackdi]

Hello. I need a legal advise on the rights and obligations of the father of my child. We've been living together for two years now and we already have a one year old child. Now, we've been arguing a lot and been fighting not just verbally but physically as well. His attitude changed since he earned a lot higher than me. I am also working and earning a high salary but it just happened that now, his salary is higher. I guess its true that money changes people. Hilas na kaayo siya msturya. What more if wala koy trabaho. Basin tratuhon rako nga katabang. Anyway, I just want to ask if mag buwag mi, unsa ang mga rights nya sa bata and unsa ang terms sa financial obligations nya sa amo anak? He acknowledged our child as his. He is declared as the father in our child's NSO though we are not married. Just live in partners. I dont want my child to grow up seeing us always fighting. I know it might affect his psychological development. I hope there is someone here that can help me. Thank you!

I dont think nga mo-change ra dayon ang tawo diha-diha kay nakadawat og mas daku nga sweldo kaysa nimo. I suspect there is something more to this than just the money factor. It's hard to give advise on cases nga wala ta kahibaw kung unsa jud ang root sa problem.

As far as what I can see around, ang spouse nga naanad nga mao'y breadwinner nya taas og income, ma-lain jud if ma-apsan og income sa other spouse. Labi na if naa na'y something shaky sa inyo relationship. I'd say it's a temporary situation nga inyo ra dapat ma-overcome in a few weeks or months or years.

If madala pa Madam, istoryaha lang jud ninyo oi.
Kasal or not, mas maayo nga i-save ang family.

[Scott Bernard]

Mas nindot nuon nang mas dako ug sweldo ang babae / asawa kay pa beer2x / tambay2x nalang ming mga lalake... hehehehe!

[insikman]

Dili man sa nagger ko, syempre magreklamo ko kung naay bati. Pero among awayan kay tungod man sa iyang pagka walay respeto. Like recently nag away mi kay gpukaw nako sya para mbantay sa kadyot sa amo anak pero nasuko man hnoon. Ingnon tag nganong pukawon sya kapoy syag trabaho blabla nga udto nman unta kompleto nas tug and wala gud sya nisud the day before kay nag leave pra mbntay sa amo anak kay nasakit. Nya msulti daun nga mulayas sya pangayoon daun ang iyang kwarta. Iya ipakita namo nga dili mi mabuhi kng wala sya.

Then nagkagrabi amo away. One thing led to another, nagkasakitay mi. Giunhan ko nya ug sagpa, bugno. So nibaws ko, then gpalayas nako sya. Asta gani amo katabang sakit kau sya makasturya maghilak nalang gud my gani d ra pd muhawa.

I already tried talking and understanding his wants pero murag d naman sakto. Wa namay respeto. Iya ipakita nga utang namo amo knabuhi kay abi dako sya ug amot sa amo expenses. Kay abi dako sya ug sweldo. Mypa magbuwag ky maluoy ko sa amo anak maghilak nig mag away mi.

Now, I just need an advise unsay process sa pagpahimo ug kasulatan para sa iyang financial obligation sa among anak. Salamat sa makatabang.

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Kinsa man sad ang gnhan ug broken family dba. Pero d naman jd mahimo. Looy lang amo anak.

[slabdans]

biyae ayaw na pangayo financial support sa bata matud pa bitaw nimo high salary earner man sad ka

kana ingon ana nga kinaiya nangita nalang nag bikil para magbuwag mo. nana nay lain kulokadidang oy pastahan pa

[jerzx777]

TS, Basin dili lang sad kwarta ang hinungdan mao na change ang iya utok , nagtuyok toyok na noon. . anyway mas maayo adto ka duol sa lawyer para legal gyud ang move. sa ako nabal-an while gamay pa ang bata anha man gyud na sa mother. . kung support pud ang hisgotan responsibility gyud na sa amahan na mo support sa iya child. . .