HELP What to do with Husband's mistress? Confront or not?

[morokporok]

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Need to know what majority of istoryans 2 cents about this...its for a friend ( hubby left her with 4 children). i say confront...

[rishee]

i tried reaching out to her at first.. for how many times jud.. pero siya man dili..

aw ni dako nuo ang gubot.. so my say... ayaw jud awaya.. ISTORYAA! and good luck!

[mikoi23]

Pasagdi lang na sis..at least, your doing at your post...
One day maka realize rana..heheheh

[jlodarl]

hmmmm kapoi mapagaw ra ta ana.. pasagdi na oi.. mo balik ra na kay mapul an ra sad to xa sa iyang babae.. maka ingon lahi ra jud iyang wife.. ipakita na wala ka na guol na gibiyaan ka pero ayaw lang sad panglaki..pa gwapa to the max nya ayaw sad pasagdae ang mga anak.. just be happy.. diba ma suya ra na imong bana!!

[am_believer24]

i would say, confront..pero not in a scandalous way..=)

[19smb87]

Make everything legal. Go to court and file adultery if you want. Ask for damages and of course monthly support for the children. And uhmmm second, hire someone to "kill" the mistress. I really hate third parties, but yeah, uhmmm don't kill, just try to "scare" something like that.

[janelicious]

if i were u, better not comfront kay wla man gud ka kaila unsa sad na ang gurl,even if ang intentions nmo juz to talk to her...pasagdi sa na in a long run mangita ra na balik nmo ang u hubby!fucos lang sa imo self and be beautiful!

[May Oropesa]

If iya i-confront ang mistress, what's the point in doing so? It's not the mistress who should be confronted, but the husband. The wife and the husband have issues which they have not yet resolved and it escalated to adultery... So, my advice is, the wife should talk to the husband to straighten things out... Sa maayo nga pamaagi ha... Way sininggitay... The wife because go-ol man kaayo siya of course... Magpa-ubos jud siya... I-invite niya iya husband talk sila tarong... Invite only once... Then wait kung unsa ang tubag sa bana... Ayaw gukda ang bana. Kay the more imo nang gukdon, the more na mogara. That's a FACT. Then if magtalk na sila sa bana, kinahanglan presence of mind jud permi. Di pada sa emotion para di mag away. The point ngano nakig talk ang wife is to settle things out. Di tungod kay nangitag away. Hope this helps.

[morokporok]

thank you very much for the feedbacks rishee, mikoi23,jlodarl, am_believer24,19smb87,janelicious, and may oropesa... I let my friend read your messages and it somehow put a smile on her face...Again, thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[gary_po_ako]

forgive then..confront the husband....

confront with LOVE... love is long suffering...