BUSTED! how to say "NO" to a person w/o offending him/her?

[makathy]

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i've had this suitor since college days.. you could say that he was the 'stalker' kind of guy.. always waiting.. always following.. i've made several attemps to change # but to no avail.. he's still finding ways to contact me.. murag linta..

dilemma #1:
he calls me (cellphone & landline) even in the wee hours of the morning.. 2am?!

dilemma #2:
he knows where i hang out.. knows where i work & where my parents work.. so he always manages to be there where i am..

dilemma #3:
lastly.. i've been wanting to tell him to just get lost.. BUT i hesitate.. coz he once told me that he had 2 police records.. hmm.. being rational here..

record #1: accidentally killing a man while over speeding (which he tells me he wasn't sorry about)
record #2: got busted in a drug raid w/ his friends.. pot session or something..

i don't really feel threatened.. i just want him to stop.. but how do you say NO to this kind of people..

specifically: HOW DO WE PROPERLY TURN DOWN GUYS W/O OFFENDING THEM?

[zaintly_gurL]

" im nOt yet ready tO handle lOve....lOve is tOo crUeL tO handle " ... hehe!

[Mabix]

tell him you're not interested in a relationship with him. better be straight forward rather than having him hang on to the thought that it could still happen between you two.

[emperadorse28]

@makathy...

tsk3x... not to judge that kind of person ha... kay don't knw man that person personally... pero i think the best thing to do is ignore... ignore and ignore.... he will get tired of it, pero just a piece of advice bsi maypagka maldito ng klaseha sa taw... adik2x man kaha... kuyaw!

[makathy]

Mabix: i can't be that straightforward sa iyaha coz he's a bit irrational at times.. so iwas nlng to get on his bad side..

emperadorse28: you're absolutely right.. adik jg cya.. hehe.. i've been ignoring him for more than 2 years na.. he's still at it.. medyo stalker/obsessive type eh..

[HottieMomi]

just blurt it out. be honest. sakit man jud na. atleast tell him dayon kaysa pa asahon diba?
prolonging the agony....

[emperadorse28]

tsk3x.... lisod raba jud ni cla balibaran klaseha sa mga taw.... unpredictable rba kaayo ng mga adik2x....

[topaz]

kuyaw jud ni na pagkatype na tao. thinking that he's still at you for two years, is kinda scary na..bsin if balibaran nimo, he might do something bad to you and to your family especially he knows your whereabouts, just try to ignore him nalang..iwas, ignore, iwas, ignore....

hope you can get rid of him soon...

[akosabni]

@makathy - i think you should ask help from your common friends; like your former schoolmates, you said college days pa, morag obsession na man ni

[grlnxtdor16]

diretcho nlng ug sulte oie..
ako di jud ko magpa ligoy2 anang mga butanga kai halur mura naman tawn na xa ug stalker oie...ang prob kaila lang mo! malas...

heheheh! btw, i want to have peace in life. mangita lng xa lain tao samok2un