If You Cheat On Your Spouse...Are You A Bad Parent?

[junmar4]

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kamo ha kargahan ko ninyo basin nuon mawarned ko...

back to topic: para nako dili. ang akong iconsider nga bad parent kay kanang mangawat.

[earljahn]

gwapo ni 2 ka topic.... he he he he

[jennesse]

Do you mean : If you fall astray while you're married do you deserve to be a husband?

First : The responsibility you have with your kids is separate to that of your spouse.
Therefore to be branded as a bad parent has nothing to do with falling out of love to that from their respective spouses.

Second : Would you then become a "bad" spouse when you fall astray?
It comes down to what leads a spouse to fall astray.

Third: "BAD" can then be best applied once the outcome of your deeds will yield unacceptable to the norm.

[earljahn]

Cheating is BAD.....

[junenine]

Let's put it this way, If I were a child and my parent is cheating, how would I react... I would be sad, angry, disappointed and emotionally disturbed. Some people say that it has nothing to do with me, I'm only a child but yes... you as a parent suppose to be the child's role model.

[Zahara]

Yes.

Because as a parent, it's your role to provide safety, security and stability to your home and your kid's life. It's also your duty to respect and love your mate. If you can't, then you should break up FIRST before engaging in a new relationship.

If you put it off, then that's adding insult to injury. Act responsibly 'coz your decisions doesn't just affect you but OTHERS as well.

[MagLu2TaYo]

one time i remember sen. flavier said that the best way to show your love for your kids is to show how you love their mother.

well said.

[Metz]

Yes you are.
Cheating will have negative effects on your kids.
And if your willing to cheat over your wife/hubby and kids, then your willing to make decisions unfavorable to them in the future which will complicate things further.

[jennesse]

I believe there are more than just being astray in a relationship.
On the other hand, there more so many things that is influencial both destructive and constructive to a human being, from birth to its last breathe..

Its the responsibility to both party to explain the best they could to lessen the outcome of any tragedy that will come along the way of any dependent child.

For whatever is worth, majority of such kind of tragedy has both party involve and has its own explanation.

I do noticed that every year, every decade life has to adopt the new norm in the society that is implemented by the people itself. Unfortunately, gone are the days that life is less complicated, and the wife are there to support, accept, respect, submit...even scribbling this information I can hear a group of female screaming from the the back oppose to this...


If by any chance such trials come along the way, I hope the offended party can understand and will understands that such things may have a better explanation, and any tragedy that is surfacing in this world we build is just but appropriate to say that no one will pay the price other than ourselves.

[evs]

no....some people just can't seem to be faithful spouses but are good parents and some are good spouses but aren't good parents.

really, this is not for us to judge these people as immoral. we don't really know as to what's going on inside the marriage that lead them to extra curricular activities.