Could you forgive someone if they cheated on you?

[jocylanne]

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Could you forgive someone if they cheated on you?

CGE POST NAMO SA INYO MGA COMMENTS.... this would help me a lot

[mhaw]

ofcurs oi...mka 4giv man gani atong man lalabaw dha sa kahitas-an kita pa kaha nga tao ra...remember to err is human and to forgive is divine...i admit naa jd times nga lisod na kaayo e forgive and forget, depende pod sa situation..and especially ga balik2x nalang, murag nag salig nalang pod ba nga mo pasaylo ka..haaayyyy tao lang po!!!sad man jd but its true...

[balolot]

it depends, kung unsay ka bug-at sa cheating that he has done to you.
give him a chance if you still love him. let your relationship work out, both of you will do the adjustment. Making sure that the mistake would never ever happen again, but if in the second time, he does it again. nah! kick him out of your life!!

as what they say:
" Fool me once, shame on you;
Fool me twice, shame on me"

[mystes]

aguy after sa DATE sa ex... kani nasad ang problema n TS.. hahaahaahaha!

kita gud ta TS para makatambag kog tarung nmo.. bwahahhahah! joke!

If cheating is the issue mao gabuwag moh.. then thats a hard task to forgive him right? but the question is, why thinking now of forgiving ur ex? is it becoz u want peace or nahan ka ibalik ang naudlot na kagahapon..? naa ra mana sa duha diba?


but to tell u, frankly... We are just human.... we can forgive.. no matter what unless the pain is still embedded in your system.. then yaw sa pakig plastic dira.. yaw sa forgive ug tao till time could tell your ready to give that forgiveness to him... hehehhee


TS: you can forgive him if your okey with it..

this time, will u bring back the old flamed? well, its ur call and not ours.. coz it was u who are involved and not to the person who comment to your thread..

Hadlok TS? uu oi, hadlok.... in doubt.. coz once u can forgive, its either mo go back ta parehas sauna or dili na... ana lang.......

ang importante lang TS sa.... na inspite what uve been throught with him... nag pabilin japon ang self love nmo dira... coz bsag unsaon pasakit sa taw nimo.. dili nea makuha ang tanan2 coz in the long run... u still have ur self.. intact! breathing! learning! and surviving!

just my learning.. just sharing..

[hox aka ryan]

ah....
way pasayluay...!
bawus2x rani...!

[hanablue88]

no never.... joke lang...depende kung unsa nga cheat..forgivable ba or not,....

[rickflag]

yes, if she's sincere in seeking apology and she will never do it again. everyone deserves another chance.

[umpa-lumpa]

i forgive nako..pero makig buwag ko..

[jocylanne]

aguy after sa DATE sa ex... kani nasad ang problema n TS.. hahaahaahaha!

kita gud ta TS para makatambag kog tarung nmo.. bwahahhahah! joke!

If cheating is the issue mao gabuwag moh.. then thats a hard task to forgive him right? but the question is, why thinking now of forgiving ur ex? is it becoz u want peace or nahan ka ibalik ang naudlot na kagahapon..? naa ra mana sa duha diba?


but to tell u, frankly... We are just human.... we can forgive.. no matter what unless the pain is still embedded in your system.. then yaw sa pakig plastic dira.. yaw sa forgive ug tao till time could tell your ready to give that forgiveness to him... hehehhee


TS: you can forgive him if your okey with it..

this time, will u bring back the old flamed? well, its ur call and not ours.. coz it was u who are involved and not to the person who comment to your thread..

Hadlok TS? uu oi, hadlok.... in doubt.. coz once u can forgive, its either mo go back ta parehas sauna or dili na... ana lang.......

ang importante lang TS sa.... na inspite what uve been throught with him... nag pabilin japon ang self love nmo dira... coz bsag unsaon pasakit sa taw nimo.. dili nea makuha ang tanan2 coz in the long run... u still have ur self.. intact! breathing! learning! and surviving!

just my learning.. just sharing..

Thanks for the response..to answer the question yes!! i want to forgive him to have peace of mind. but im still in the stage of acceptance na wala njud mi..but them how come karon naa nsad.huhuh.. i have tried my best na to forget him but LADY GAGA man cguro gihapon ko.. despite of the things na iya gbuhat naa gihapon ko trying to be nice to him.. his my best friend man gud. we've been through together during collage days.. I really wanted na friends nlng jud mi but still the treatment niya krn same as before.. do u think sincere cya sa iyang gibuhat krn?

[mystes]

Thanks for the response..to answer the question yes!! i want to forgive him to have peace of mind. but im still in the stage of acceptance na wala njud mi..but them how come karon naa nsad.huhuh.. i have tried my best na to forget him but LADY GAGA man cguro gihapon ko.. despite of the things na iya gbuhat naa gihapon ko trying to be nice to him.. his my best friend man gud. we've been through together during collage days.. I really wanted na friends nlng jud mi but still the treatment niya krn same as before.. do u think sincere cya sa iyang gibuhat krn?

Thats nice to hear na you want to forgive him coz of peace of mind.. Then let it be..

but then your dilemma is ikaw naa sa south ang pangutok, cea kay naa sa north ang dagan... and to sum up of it.. wala mo nag.abot....

Kabalo ka.... You're in a stage of CONFUSION now... The guy wants you back, and you urself wanted to let go na totallly..so u said to yourself....ur in a stage of acceptance.. but why now the guy is on the track to woe you back.. but then you still have this attachment no matter how you detach your self... and you still go back to the maze after this..


Do I think sincere siya sa iya gibuhat? That I dont know... u told me, best friend mo.. so mas nakaila ka niya kaysa nako.. hOw old are u miss? coz me, im still 23.. hahha din wla pa kasuway ug uyab2 jud.... mao I dont want to led you to a wrong window when regrets are waiting for you at at the end...but then.. as I observed lang ha sa mga taw...


Give your self a time...

From bestfriend - to lover.
Lover - to ex
Ex - to friend (mao ta na imo nahan) or sure ka mao jud na? hahahaahaha

but something are neever been the same miss.. Ikaw, if you wanted na nahan jud k.. baliki.. but kana pag balik nimo.. yaw na pareha sauna sad.. this time you are already equipped with some history and learnings from it..

I hope you are not bewildered by confusion and real emotion that are toying infront of that situation...

bitaw miss, kung ako.. ok ra mag balik mi if and only if, nahan jud ko sa taw.. inlove pa ko sa taw.. pero sguruon nako.. naa ko na learn ato jud.. but if wala ko na learn din kabalo ko mao japon sauna...then i wont do it..

Instinct will tell you.. Learning will guide you..Lesson will make you a wise woman..