manipulated by parents

[sugbuana]

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^^got no choice man pud..

anyway, freedom akong gipangita from my parents.

thanks SD

[Ekoydakoykoy]

just take a chance to talk to them heart to heart then speak of what you desire like imo cla ingnon na your a great parents , i know nga this is for my own good things like that, imo sa i acknowledge unsa nga things nga naka buhat nimo og ayo(biscan dli ka gusto) basta kay nahimo ka nga better citizen and after that tell them that you already done things their own ways and then tell them that you want your ways now but ayw sad ng mag lagot2x ka pasabta sd cla na you want to design and create your own carrer and life mas nindot man gd biscan dli na cla ang nag decide para nmu at least you have their blessing maka sabot ra lagi na cla... and if dli gyud gani aw its time to do it on your own leave them go and explorer total you got it all naman mana ka skwela and etc..

[Pi2plank]

'you will only live once...'

'there's alot more regret in not having done it, than having done it..(although this doesnt apply in all situations..)'

pls try to live with a lot less regret & remorse, you may be halfway through your life already.. how 'bout making a bucket list, then start doing some things you really need to do before rejoining our maker


i have tons of problems, but everytime i shred on my guitar steve vai's song 'die to live' (that song was definitely on my bucket list songs to play), i celebrate life & i am totally FREE!!

i wish you happiness & freedom! (even for just slight moments like i do )

[Blackbeard]

How can i get a life of my own without disregarding my parents ?

good luck being their puppet.

if you want freedom, you have to disobey them.

[sugbuana]

before sa nag iskuyla pa ko. ingun nila " inig makahuman ka ug iskuyla pwede ka dayun magminyo bisan inig ugma dayun after graduation and mabuhat na nimo imu tanan gusto!"... Na feel na ko karun at age 25 mas ni istrikto sila.ni grabe ang pagka overprotective...waaaah! pagka feaetz! only solution ako nahuna-huna-an ron kay magminyo. sakto ba ning ako buhaton? ? ?
ganahan ko makalingkawas from my parents shadow!

[noel_llapa]

^are you living with your parents pa? if so, murag lisod jud mag-independent anah. if you're earning enough man tingale sa imo job, why not rent a room or apartment somewhere else. That's the first step I think. Walay makadiktar unsay buhaton nimo if you're living on your own. Marriage is a not really a sure-fire solution to your problem. Worse, basin mu-interfere na hinuon sila sa imo marriage.

[sugbuana]

^^yes, i'm currently living with them. akong work naa man pud dri. gamay ra amung hometown para mag rent ko or mag-apartment.

Marriage is a not really a sure-fire solution to your problem. Worse, basin mu-interfere na hinuon sila sa imo marriage.

hinuon may posibilidad jud mao nay mahitabo. but mao ray ako nakit-an nga lusot. upto now, sila pay nagpili ug lalaki nga angayani para nako. Intawun akong uyab, wa magustohi.
well, pwede sad hinua mo work ko sa lain lugar like abroad para malayo nila pero not financially stable pako run. kuwang para e placement fee sa agency.

[noel_llapa]

your situation calls for extreme measures man tingale jud. move out of your town. if possible, secure a job elsewhere! if naay opportunity, work abroad. do everything within your means to get out of your house. i know it sounds extreme but paet kaayo kung imo ginikanan mag-buot sa imong kinabuhi. murag ilaha na man kang property. do it as soon as you can, kay kung magdugay ka, di na hinuon ka kadecide!

[sugbuana]

thank you for those who shared their thoughts

[rjgo_1979]

lisud kay lisud au nila pag earn sa ilang money, that's why they probably want things done their way. nurse man kaha ka, once maka larga naka, you can live your own life. That's what a lot of my friends did. the distance will set you free...hehe nyaks char!:P