Do you think I'm a bad Mother for my kids?

[PURPZ LOCKHEART]

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very nice insight. thank you. uplifted me at the moment. way binuang nakaluha ko. hahaha.

your kids could only blame you for your physical absence, rant till they want for you have not been there for them during their down moments..

yet, they could be grateful to you for not depriving them to have a good life, there cant be as worst as having a financially challenged life..

the absence of a mother can be filled upon, yet the absence of a good food is not

[farmboy]

i understand your stand about it. but let me ask you this? must i choose to be with my kids in hunger and let them die with me? i have an option a painful one though that's giving them up and away from me in favor of their good life instead. there is nothing more painful than what any moms would feel being away from their children. but sometimes bad decisions can also be good if intentions are for the wellbeing of your children.

You say that because that is what you see in your mind.

Today is Monday, no one is sure what happens tomorrow Tuesday, am I right? The Mind is the builder, thoughts begins there, and things will happen. Look at it this way, our thoughts are like movie films, and our minds project them on screen which becomes our realities.

You are not alone. There are countless mothers who leave their little children in care of aging parents so they seek material gains abroad. We know what happen to them.

Try to watch this movie http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0264192/

If you like, I can send you a copy.

It simply shows that a mother's love for her children will transcend lifetimes

[farmboy]

your kids could only blame you for your physical absence, rant till they want for you have not been there for them during their down moments..

yet, they could be grateful to you for not depriving them to have a good life, there cant be as worst as having a financially challenged life..

the absence of a mother can be filled upon, yet the absence of a good food is not

you probably never had a mother sir or perhaps a mother you did not grow up with.

[butong101]

very nice insight. thank you. uplifted me at the moment. way binuang nakaluha ko. hahaha.

for all the convenience the world has given us today, sayon ra kaayo mo ingon nga luoy kaayo ang bata kung walay mama, unsaon nlang ang emotional turmoil, psychological well being, etc.. etc.. etc..

pero walay sama ka lisod kung ang imo anak imo makit-an nga galisod, dili mka kaon ug insakto, dili mka sinina ug nindot, dili mka palit sa ilang gusto..

having tried several financial challenges, if i am your child, i would love to thank you, but of course, your child wont be able to realize this, until they would have their own families to feed..

[PURPZ LOCKHEART]

Could be... You might be right at some points, but nevertheless, I'm the better judge of myself still. I don't think I did something very awful, but instead very painful. It's sacrifice! I love my kids and I'm only looking after to what is best for them. What is important is that I am never away from them in thoughts and deeds. Me and my kids communications are very open and it's as if I'm never away from them. Also, I will always understand different people's views on this matter for we are not on the same shoes after all.

You say that because that is what you see in your mind.

Today is Monday, no one is sure what happens tomorrow Tuesday, am I right? The Mind is the builder, thoughts there, and things will happen. Look at it this way, our thoughts are like movie films, and our minds project them on screen which becomes our realities.

You are not alone. There are countless mothers who leave their little children in care of aging parents so they seek material gains abroad. We know what happen to them.

Try to watch this movie Yesterday's Children (TV 2000) - IMDb

If you like, I can send you a copy.

It simply shows that a mother's love for her children will transcend lifetimes

[emow]

TS.... its your choice... but i can see the angle where your relatives are looking.... im sure that you are just looking for whats best for your children.... but no matter how much you try to say that, it looks like you have chosen a more convenient life for you and your children...it was an easier choice, since your husband and rich...it was an easier choice since you dont have to worry how you will feed your children... you can sleep soundly at night knowing your children are being taken care of.... I am a product of a separated family...my mom raised us alone, starting from scratch.... nobody can really condemn you... but why are you troubled? asking why you're a bad mother? is it because somehow deep inside, you know daku kag pagkukulang sa imu mga anak? Sure they will be taken care of....but they may not be able to treat you as the mother in every sense of its meaning... you choose to be practical than undergo the hardships....the separation from children is hard.....but you still choose to let them go.... nobody can blame you....but dont expect your children to fully understand that...

[PURPZ LOCKHEART]

Sure I would appreciate if you would send me a copy of it. Or can I just download it at Piratebay.Org?

You say that because that is what you see in your mind.

Today is Monday, no one is sure what happens tomorrow Tuesday, am I right? The Mind is the builder, thoughts begins there, and things will happen. Look at it this way, our thoughts are like movie films, and our minds project them on screen which becomes our realities.

You are not alone. There are countless mothers who leave their little children in care of aging parents so they seek material gains abroad. We know what happen to them.

Try to watch this movie Yesterday's Children (TV 2000) - IMDb

If you like, I can send you a copy.

It simply shows that a mother's love for her children will transcend lifetimes

[butong101]

you probably never had a mother sir or perhaps a mother you did not grow up with.

w/ all due respect sir, i have the most wonderful mother of all time..

i got that insight from my own experience, seeing my mother bleed during our financial crisis.. mura pd mig world economy ng financial crisis pg 2007..haha

kasabot ko sa akoa mom, cge gyud tawn hilak inside our room, dili sya pakita namo pero na feel nko.. that's why my above contention that an absence of a mother can be filled upon.. naa man gihapon communication c TS ug iya anak, meaning pwede ra ghapon niya ma fill upon iya responsibilities although in a much later time na(pa)..

[PURPZ LOCKHEART]

I gotcha! Somehow part of what you said is what I am feeling right now. But let me correct you on what you said it's convenient for me as well. Even if the kids are not with me, I still share of whatever little I earned for myself to them. But my worries lies on the fact that maybe just maybe my kids would need me more physically as well.

TS.... its your choice... but i can see the angle where your relatives are looking.... im sure that you are just looking for whats best for your children.... but no matter how much you try to say that, it looks like you have chosen a more convenient life for you and your children...it was an easier choice, since your husband and rich...it was an easier choice since you dont have to worry how you will feed your children... you can sleep soundly at night knowing your children are being taken care of.... I am a product of a separated family...my mom raised us alone, starting from scratch.... nobody can really condemn you... but why are you troubled? asking why you're a bad mother? is it because somehow deep inside, you know daku kag pagkukulang sa imu mga anak? Sure they will be taken care of....but they may not be able to treat you as the mother in every sense of its meaning... you choose to be practical than undergo the hardships....the separation from children is hard.....but you still choose to let them go.... nobody can blame you....but dont expect your children to fully understand that...

[butong101]

Could be... You might be right at some points, but nevertheless, I'm the better judge of myself still. I don't think I did something very awful, but instead very painful. It's sacrifice! I love my kids and I'm only looking after to what is best for them. What is important is that I am never away from them in thoughts and deeds. Me and my kids communications are very open and it's as if I'm never away from them. Also, I will always understand different people's views on this matter for we are not on the same shoes after all.

this makes you selfless.. couldn't agree for more..
let them call it convenient escape, let them call it excuse
but you did great for your son/daughter..

just like severus snape.. the underrated deeds are much greater than the overrated ones..