EX GF is my Co-worker and shes back with his bf

[MaRZ[RH]]

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Hi mga ka storyans,

Need some advise.. I had a ex gf na co-worker . my sub ordinate weve been together for mos sad and I fell in love sa iyaha. I thought this was be my last coz siya ra nka break sa akong spell in which i didnt turn my previous relationship na seryoso. But sad to say we broke up coz nkigbalik cya sa iyang ex. we still go together sa among workplace ,ako ghapon xa hapiton sa iyahang balay ky maagian ra man sad na padng sa among gitrabahoan. I still want to care for her . bat sakit lng gyud huna hunaon na dli na kami og naa nay nkatag iya nya. How can i adopt this situation without conflict sa among professional relationshp namong duha. Mg away mi everytime mag post cya sa ilang pictures nlang duha. maglagot ko. I know i am not in that position to do so. permi magkita then iyang desk ky atubangan gyud sa nq. How can i get through with this...

[Wondermae]

Hi MaRZ, I really think you need to assess yourself first how far you want to pursue for this girl. Coz seems to me you are not over her yet. First option: If you think you really love her that much to win her back from this new bf of hers, then continue to fetch her to and from her house, continue to be caring for her BUT don't show her your feelings of anger when you see them both (your ex gf and his new bf) together on fb, coz you have no right over her. Yes, sadly, you are no longer in a relationship, so accept this. As the say, "ihilom nalang sa tago." There are 2 possible consequences for this option: She may realize later on that she truly loves you or she might not and you waited in vain. Second option is to accept the fact that she is not the girl for you and move on with your life. Decide not to fetch her to and from work. Tell her that it will be difficult for both of you if you do so because her bf might get angry knowing that you are still fetching her. Then try to go with other people in your office, you must find someone to chat over snack breaks other than her. Start on a new hobby. Enroll in some courses you want. Volunteer in some groups in Cebu. There are so many options to get involved to. Try at least one to keep your mind from her and divert your attention to for awhile. And before long, you will learn to get over her. But if none of these works for you, then try all possibilities to win her back. It's your choice in the end. Good luck and ciao! =)

[Little_Mermaid88]

di jud ka mka-move on ana kai ang inyohang routine which is imoha gihapon cya kuhaon sa ila, is still the same. find something to focus on kai kana imong kalagot, wa nai mahimo since you already know the score between you and her.

[xetorkaiba]

move on nalang jud TS kay nibalik man kaha siya sa iyang ex so dako jud kay siyag gugma para ato, ako pa ni hunonga nanang hatud og kuha kay kas2x lang kas imong effort og time ana, ihilak na if kahilakon ka ayaw na pugngi kay lisod na , maka daot raba nas lawas hahahaah bitaw, make yourself busy ra jud na, pag dota boss if player ka hehe ayaw pag pundo diha sa inyong pag tagay niya kantahi dayon og "Beer" nga kanta para hugot jud kaayo ba

[slakker]

pa-resigna imung ex ts para maka move-on na ka...

[luff101]

Channel your love to someone or something else. Your love is just a one way love. She can't give the love back to you.

[THE KID]

undanga na ang imong pagka bayot karon panahona og balik sa pagka lalaki....

[THE KID]

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[Peenut]

@TS, paminaw ni Lettle Mermed kay maayo kaayo ni kabahin sa mga gugma2x. busa...

di jud ka mka-move on ana kai ang inyohang routine which is imoha gihapon cya kuhaon sa ila, is still the same. find something to focus on kai kana imong kalagot, wa nai mahimo since you already know the score between you and her.

[THE KID]

sa akong tan aw kaning babay kai feeler sad kaau ni...klaru kaau sa akong tb2.... kai tarung pakang babay... dili ka magpa court kung dili ka cgurado.... unya kung unsa ang imong gi putol...putol na jud to... walay balikay.... atong subayon ha? iyang gibuwagan si ts kai ngbalik sila sa iyang x....karon kung maninguha jud si ts ngadto niya...iya kwentihay buwagan napud to ang iyang former x para ari napud siya ni ts? pagka dakung kwinanggol dili ba?ahhahahhaha