confusing..........advice me not........or just read

[painted_love]

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'm a girl in evrybody eyes.....but d truth is......i've a heart of a boy......i could not admit 2 myself dat i'm a lesbian or wat you call it... I'm acting lyk a ordinary girl and have a lot of girl friendz...but d problem is i'm falling inlove with a girl...........!!!!!!!!!and i can't help it.........!!!!No matter how i ignore my feelings.....still i can't control it........!!!!!!!i hate 2 be lesbian......and i hate lesbian.....but i'm going 2 be like dat.......!!!!!

I've a major problem dat i'm indulging ryt now...i've a classmate and we became frndzzzzzz.....d tym goes by....we becme so close with eachoder.....we are so infatuated....nd i'm starting 2 fall with her....but i don't want to let her know dat i'm falling with her....in every action dat i made...i try dat it was just a friend care to a friend....but d thing became so worse....because....i already fetch her in place...and i think it was not a usual thing...and everybody wondering y do i fetch her everyday...do we are not in d sme place....but we just ignore it.......!! I don't know in her side...f she want me to fetch her alwayzzzzzzzzzz....nd we also mke some hangout lyk watching movie..just d two of us...we hold ur hands when we walk....but nothing behind dat....!!!!!!!in my side...i know dat i'm behind d limitation of our friendship...but i dnt knw with her side.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!know i'm planning to stay away with her...because i don't want to be a lesbian...and try to refuse wat i'm feeling...coz i know it's badly wrong..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and i've to do it..................................

[diem]

[color=navy]Hmmm. Well it appears you've already set up your mind and feel strongly about this. You might already know what to do and have plans of action to carry out to move beyond this infatuation.

I sincerely agree that when you think that on her part, her affectionate gestures and actions might only mean a comfortable friendship with you. Nothing less, nothing more.

I sincerely agree that emotions are fleeting and can be arrested or controlled by action. If you know yourself, and know what you want then go fo it.

I sincerely wish you the best, painted love. [b]Where there's a will... it's a woman

[Serene]

Maybe you're not lesbian. You could just be going through a phase. How old are you anyway?

But i think you should resolve your issues about yourself before you "fall" in love. You need to accept yourself first If not, how can you expect others accept you?

[anti-christ]

denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance, which are commonly referred to as the "grief cycle" .

know yourself kiddo.

[christa]

yeah, i agree.

maybe u are just going through a phase..

i've been through this before..way back in high-school

i was boyish then and i liked this particular girl.. the girl knew and we got so close to each other.
but later on we just realized that what we had was a very strong friendship..

we just had to go through that phase.


it's a phase..especially if u have been around girls for most of the time... sometimes, u tend to be close to a particular person and u tend to interpret it as "love."

denying it or getting angry wont help..

i think it will be better if u will open ur mind to the possible consequences.. di man sad sa imong i-entertain ka..
u just have to weigh the good and the bad side.

and don't conclude right away na "lesbian" ka.. because if u really are, u wont "hate" it..
if that is ur true self..u will be happy with it.. dili kay u will end up hating urself ..

just pray that whatever it is u are feeling or u are going through ..GOD will enlighten you..

good luck.

hehehe

[tuWaD!!!]

how old are you?

[painted_love]

i'm 20 yrs old ryt now..

[painted_love]

naa dyud mo point....!!!!as-in....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[mata_hari]

that's what we call identity confusion or identity crisis. predominant on adolescent stage. think a million times if you want to jump into a relationship with the same ***, once you start to decide which of which, it's really hard to reverse. basin ma imprinted na siya throughout your adult life.

[8sme]

hello kiddo...

i guess its best to know urself better and accept for who you are... sabi nga nila... identity crisis rana... nganu diay kung n care ka sa imo friend not as usuall nga frienship... you hold hands and all... Just as long nga sure ka nga for friendship ra jud na inyo since wala man mo g storyahan nga uyab mo. Therefore friends ra jud mo... Ayaw pud likay sa imo friend just because nga confused ka... Coz, if I were your friend, I will be badly hurt. You have to know nga masakitan pud bya ang friend nimo, normally once mulikay ka nya all of a sudden, ma hurt jud cia... Keber sa pepol nga close ra kaayo mo... JUST AS LONG AS U know urself nga for FRIENDSHIP ra jud na...

May I remind you nga huwag ka mgsalita ng tapos... Maybe you hate being a lesbian coz ur still young and hadluk ka kay d man cia accepted sa society. But if the time comes na ma feel nimo kung unsa jud imo gusto... BE urself... It sets you FREE matud pa. Dont pretend... Mas mglisud ka ug diskarte sa kinabuhi kung ikaw mismo in denial sa imo real identity... BE who you are...

Regarding your friend as of YET, if you feel OK ra not to talk it over with your friend and forget nga n confused k at one of point in your life. THEN move on and be happy with what your doing together with your friend. Celebrate life my friend... Your young so savor the moment while young matud pa. NOW, kung decided ka to talk it over with your friend and ask her about ninyo, then do it. Basin pud bya, iba iya feelings, who knows kung unsa pud iya na feel nga ing-ana imo treatment nya. Nganu diay kung mg ask ka, just as long as be ready lang pud kung unsa ang mga possible answer nya... Be ready to everything... What if she falls for you already pero wa lang pud cia nsulti? what will you do? Unsa man decision nimo... will you continue d friendship or next level mo? Can you afford to loose her as a friend? Can you compromise and meet half way kung unsa jud na inyo relationship? WHAT ever you decide... kaya rana nimo... be urself...