I just can't get over my ex. I'm so into her. It has been 5 months since our relationship went cold. Later, I realized that she has been manipulating me. I was so scared losing her and that fear was her ultimate weapon for me to follow what she wants. For instance, I want her to come visit me (she doesn't want me visiting her home), she would refuse and then she let's me chose whether i want her in my house the we'll split afterwards or she'll just stay home. I feel so lonely for the past months since everything became cold. what should i do?