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    Default when is the right age to discipline a child?


    ga cge mi ug lalis aning pagdisiplina sa bata. kung ang bata manglabay or mukatkat, or manukmag ug uban pang pabadlong at the age of 1yr and 10mos, nya kahibaw na cya mo talk gamay ug masugo nagani ug pakuha ug butang i mean kasabot na gani cya kung moingon kag dili pro usahay garaon lng jud.. unsay buhaton ug kanus-a angayan sultian cya or angayan bang kasab-an?
    pls share your own experiences or you've known and ideas about possible outcome inig dako sa bata...

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    0-7yrs old is the most crucial stage of a child's dev't. dha nga age dali kaau mka absorb ug learning ang mga bata. dat's y pnka impt kaau nga parents jd mag discipline s anak.ana nga age s imo anak TS very active kaau n, mg explore n prme!try to observ ur kid and explain things..kana nga age bsta moingon ka ug "NO", d more nga mo go n!try to do reverse psychology dw. kids wud eventually understand d consequences of their actions..

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    toddler stage sugod naka ug basics like saying no pero nig preschool ara nka nga imo ipa-"time out" nya muexplain ka kay makasabot nmn na unsay good ug bad. before toddler age kay wa pa nay hanaw ang bata ngano imo gikasaban so usik ra imo effort hehe

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    as soon as makasabot na ang bata og yes or no. be patient lang sab TS ky kana nga edad perte jud kau na cla kalangas ky moexplore jud biya na cla, curious sa tanang butang. kung mokatkat gani, bantayi lang sab pod patalikod lang ka nya. di ko kasabot sa uban parents na kung moexplore ilaha bata, like mokatkat, mag ambak2, magdula sa food or milk/water, magguba sa ilaha toys, magdagan2 etc. ingnun dayon pirmi og No! be supportive lang jud, basta lang wala nagpaka bad og maau ang bata ok ra na. part of growing up jud baya na. pagbigyan panagsa ky makalearn man sab sila anah.

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    Always be firm if it's a no then it's a No. You have to explain sad nganu dili pwede so they will understand why. Careful sad with temper tantrums. They also tend to do manipulative cry, resorting to it just to get what they want. If he is doing a bad habit then stop it then and there. Do not let it continue hantod mapul-an ka anha pa nimo badlungon.

    I see parents who tolerate their kids cursing in public and just smiling at what the kid is doing. It may sound cute at first and funny pero ikaw ra gihapon ang i-blame.

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    mga 2 guro.. mao na'y gibuhat sa akong ate so far

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    2 y.o up ... pero verbal na discipline for this age .. bunal for me for 5y.o above ..

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    As soon as you see that your child can already understand what's a yes and a no, then you can already do the disciplining procedure. I have a 3-year old toddler. She is already in preschool and I started disciplining her at the age of 2. I can already see that she has absorbed all the teachings that I taught her now. She can eat on her own, she can pee on her own (pero syempre ako ang mo-ilo), she can wee wee on her own, she can drink her milk in a glass na, she can sleep on her own, do toothbrush on her own, etc. Maka rationalize na sya kung bad or good ba kay ako man permi jud storyahan if naa sya gibuhat nga di maayo kay ako kasab-an then ako pud i-explain ngano nga gikasab-an nako sya. Maayo jud na nga ipasabot sa bata ngano nga gikasab-an sya dili kay magyaw2x lang ka nga way padulngan. Be stiff jud when you say no, it should be no para makaana sya nga no jud diay di pwede ma yes...Dili jud na maayo patuyangan ang bata nga magbuhat ug di maayo abi kay bata pa di pa kasabot, I tell you kasabot jud na sila basta tarungon lang jud ug explain and best of all be a good example. Be a good role model kay kusog kaayo na sila mosuon sa mga dagko labina nimo nga parent.

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    thanks sa mga ideas ninyo... ill take note of all these... bythe way ako ni pag umangkon nya kami sa akong parents ga aruga ani nga iyang lolo ug lola.. nya kaning bataa gud ky hilak hilakan ka pag naa cya gusto... but mo no jud ko.. bahala na muhilak pro usahay ang mga lola ug lolo di ka agwanta..dayon ug apil nya pamper pag ayo ang bata nya didto na magpalaban sa ila... nya moingon dayon na di padaw pwde disciplinahon ky bata pa..hahaiii..nman ani...

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    as early as possible.
    as long as u see that the baby can interact, you should explain why he cant do this, shout, touch this, play with this (even if you think they wont get it). they'll get to underrstand it eventually, and they'll get familiar with it.

    so mga 5 mos I guess.

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