if some issues bother you and letting it out by posting here isn't enough, allow me to help you with some professional help that would hopefully bring closure to your issues.
problems are not supposed to be talked about, it should be resolve for us to continue with life without any baggage left unsettled.
i am a freelance facilitator by profession conducting training and seminars and also offering counseling.
just post your issues in this thread and i will answer them through private message (pm) to maintain the confidentiality of your concern and keep things in a respectful manner.
thank you