Here We Go Again (Help!!!!!)

[the_samwitch]

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Guyz i need help sa ako situation. So heres the thing. I knew this girl from a mutual friend way back december pa. We talked a little bit and i kind of like her...i mean really x2 like her. But she has a boyfriend at that time so i didnt make my move.

But a month ago my friend texted me that she broken up with him. And i know what your going to say "panakip butas alert" and trust me i know how that feels (2 na ni happen nko) but i cant let this chance pass me by...i really think shes worth the pain.

Anyway so i started texting her and we went out (w/ mutual friend with her ofchurs) and she open up to me...i tried to be the supportive guy but ofchurs i was rooting for them not to get back together.

As of now i think she already knows i like her...but i never really said that im courting or anything. I ask her out regularly but most of the time her friend is with her....


my question is...how will i know if its the right time to move in? i dont want to wait too long that i will miss my chance but i also dont want to go fast and let her think im taking advantage of the situation.

and last thing...how do i know if i have a chance? im really bad at reading people...hehehe hope u guyz can help

[kageron]

Anyway so i started texting her and we went out (w/ mutual friend with her ofchurs) and she open up to me...i tried to be the supportive guy but ofchurs i was rooting for them not to get back together.

my question is...how will i know if its the right time to move in? i dont want to wait too long that i will miss my chance but i also dont want to go fast and let her think im taking advantage of the situation.

you already took advantage of the situation when you were rooting and hoping nga dili ma fixed ilang sitwasyon.

my question is...how will i know if its the right time to move in? i dont want to wait too long that i will miss my chance

Why you can't wait? What's with hurrying up? Excited ka nga ma busted? If you are in a hurry you are not there to comfort her. You are there to accomplish something that's only good for you and that's ma uyab nimo cya.

Help her move on and keep in mind that she is in the phase of depression and confusion due to the lost relationship she had. You will know when the time comes when the girl would simply be comfortable with you. And it's up to you how you will figure that one out since you can't always assume over the things that the girl is doing. And you can't simply read someone's mind.

[bitchybutsweet]

don't rush things..just be there for her

[pinkpumpkin]

huwat ui kay bag-o pa xa nag-broken up with him.

[xavisimao]

contrary to the suggestion of the others, mine is different...


strike whilst the iron is hot.......

[jonz]

just be friend with her.. and not all the time you are there.. and just be like some one nga naa sa iyaha or sahaya wala sd..
pwde sdka pa epek style.. depende sa diskarte. never never rush....do something different.. just have some fun.. you will never know.. kana btaw ma feel nya nga naa dydka then sahay wala sdka.. kana brad.. kung kasabot ka sa akong g mean.. there is no perfect move.. just be yourself and have fun with her..

[baliko]

Good things come to those who wait.

[cloudduster]

ikaw ra ga ingon nga 'she's worth the pain.' damn it -- what are you waiting for?

[jiax]

if she agrees to go out with you kyog iyang friends that means ok na sya nimo .. and mas nindot if sya na mismo ang mo hagad nimo ug laag pero ayaw lang sa taga.e ug malisya daun .. pero its a good thing na nga you guys go out regularly kay ang pinaka ka best step ana bro kay ang friends gyd bya mo hatag ug verdict nimo .. if mo approve sila nimo then sila na mismo ang mag cge ug sulsul sa girl nga "oiiii kamo ha!!!" kana gani nga effect? chill lng enjoy the moment bag.o pa sila nag buwag gud ayaw lng sa dive basin imong divan kay hunas sakita gyd bya sa bukol ana and mawla inyo friendship

[muchacha00]

say it say it..... or else mag mag mahay ka...