need ur opinions..

[april_me87]

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I have been in a stable relationship for the past 10 yrs now. Wev been dating since i was 15, now 25, i can say that i am ready to take the next step. I told my bf about it mga late last year and he said he wants it too but its just that dli pa xa financialy stable. TL cya sa isa ka call center and i can say he's earning a good amount of money sad. But he also has debts to pay since nag car loan xa. Anyway, my question is this. Am i being too insensitiv for wantng to take the next step? Coz sa ako part lng, i fear that he's becoming too complacent with our status being just bf/gf
and not having any real obligations? Coz para nako lang, if i told him abwt it, he shud have done sumthng like mayb d jud dayn2 mu propose but at least talk and plan abwt it and we can save up for it. But wa man jd and i dont want to keep havng the same conversation with him ky
dko nahan mapugos ra xa doing sumthng he doesnt want to do. Kamu istoryans? Wat do u thnk? Ako ang sayop and jst being immature?

[ondoy]

kna bya next step ky involve bya na ug dako2 sab nga money,bsin mao na iya reason dli cya kaingon saimo madam..bsin ga hilom2 rna cya ug plano pra sa inyong next step.

[THE KID]

to the next step....ingna siya....

[cardo]

Di raba na lalaim kanang "next step" inyo buhaton, it's a lifetime obligation for both of u.

[jack_bauer]

basin di pa lang gyud siya ganahan sa next BIG thing.. hehe

kung akoy babae, nya after ako gipa dungog2x ako bf nga nahan nko mo settle down unya walay serious moves gi buhat ako bf for the next step.. ay duh.. mg second thoughts nko ana niya oi.. ehehehe

[rAiNe_]

TS pareha tag sitwasyon, pero saa akong side lang kahibaw jud ko sa obligasyon sa akong bf kay xa man padre de pamilya sa ilaha, wala na xa papa and tanan obligation naa niya..
everytime I ask him about us, if when mi mag minyo or unsa, moingon xa nga storyahan daw namo.sabutan daw namo
pero moingon xa nga sabot sa daw ko kay iya pamilya nag need pa niya

so ending....

gikapoy kog paabot, so ana lang..
the end..

[thinkspace]

TS walay sayop akong nakita sa imong gibuhat. imo rang gipadayag imong gabati. ug sa imong edad ug sa inyong kadugayon dapat na pud mo magminyo kay ganahan naman ka. pro sa kahimtang sa imong bf, cya ra jud ang makatubag ana kung ganahan cya or dili. ang car loan gamay ra mana nga butang kung timbangon batug sa inyong relayson. sa karon wala kay laing mahimo kung magpaabot ra niya kay dili man mahimo mag minyo2x ka nga ikaw ra usa

[pinkpumpkin]

huwata mam. ayaw pagdali. dako baya na nga responsibility sa lalaki if magminyo na.
he's not talking about it kay obviously he's not ready yet. ayaw pamugos kay basin magmahay ra ka kung asa na mo-end up. if magdali ka, bati na ug resulta. di pa mo ready financially, basin magmahay nya ka kung minyo namo and maka-anak na. hinay2 lang mam.. bata pa kaau ka.. wa man gani gaingon ang uban nga nangaminyo ug tag 29 or 30.

[KULKOG.KULITOG]

murag dili pa sya ready

[maddox_pitt]

Maybe he's not yet ready to take the next "big step"

Financially
Emotionally


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