Cant get over his previous long term relationship

[jhanjhan]

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I dont want to start a thread sana hehehe obyus man gud kaayo ug dali ra mabasahan ni ehem.. istoryan baya sad to siya but i guess i just need to air this out and crossing my fingers and toes that he may not be able to read this.. kay kapoy kaayo dala dala ani ug kapoyan ko maghunahuna sige..We just started lang and he was from a long term relationship.

They were together for 7 years so imagine that time compared to us which of course gasugud pa... i guess, im a guilty party too since I was looking for a relationship then and was just trying to change my status from single to having a bf because it has been a long time since i had one and mejo, hehehe i was thinking with my biological clock in perspective ( mao ni ang makuha basta arte kay ka sauna ) so i did not dwell into details, i just plunged my way ahead and right now im being bothered by the details which I should have checked, way before i got myself in relationship with him.

I dont know why but the length of time that they had together really bothers me now and even with the recent fact that ive learned mejo kabalo ko nga red signal ni sha when we got together he was just in 6 months of recovering from his heartache (it was the girl who decided to end the relationship and based on what he said he did his best to win her over but no such luck) it bothers me to know that he was not even fully recovered (guro, im speculating bec based on what ive read, if ur in a long term relationship, you need to have at least a year to recover) when we became an item..

I feel unsure on what i placed myself into and even thinking, choosy kaayo ko unya ngano man ing ani akong nasudlan? I was tempted to walk out nlng but certain situations happen and dili man gud ko ganahan ug complications sa life so basta feeling nako sobra na or drama na, lakaw nalang ko but i know its not the right way to deal things.

Im not so sure if Im making any sense and also if you guys can relate anyway nauwaw baya ko ani pero sige nlng pra makagaan sa feeling hehehe.. thanks for reading this and mejo long sha sensha hehehe

[brian joshua]

mejo may alanganin hehe...

ts, you never know unless you try. basin ikaw na jd unta pero nibiya lng ka niya...
guys who last that long then dumped by their women are real gentlemen. uban gni pang consumo ra ang uyab.

are you sure nibiya jd ka? kung mao mn gni, hope you do well with the next one nlng ts...

[jhanjhan]

aww bro, wala man mi gabuwag hehehe aww bisag ana lab baya sad to nako siya :P hehehe nah, feeling nako bug-at lang, i just cant reconcile myself with his long term rel added by the fact that murag rebound man guro ani. sakit ayo sa pride hehehe..murag ngano bitaw wala ga check ug tarung daan before nisulod

[brian joshua]

mura gd na namo mga laki...kung kami ang first jd, proud kau pero kung salin nlng amo, dghan kau mig mahuna2x-an nga bisan unsa nlng...usahay annoying na kau amo treatment nila kay maniguro na mi nga di mausab, or di buhaton sa lain or unsa ba. unfavorable na kau sa pikas side. mao ra sd tingali na ts.

[BoyasBabis]

for 7years? it's too hard to forget someone who stayed that long. Everytime he talks about his past relationship think of it as you are in the shoe of the girl. Anticipate always when he says about that girl.

[momiji11]

thats a bit long...lisod jud na..i can relate, but I guess, u owe yourself a favor..u never know..just give it a try and help him instead recover from his previous relationship...im sure he will appreciate it..

just be there for him...

[jhanjhan]

mura gd na namo mga laki...kung kami ang first jd, proud kau pero kung salin nlng amo, dghan kau mig mahuna2x-an nga bisan unsa nlng...usahay annoying na kau amo treatment nila kay maniguro na mi nga di mausab, or di buhaton sa lain or unsa ba. unfavorable na kau sa pikas side. mao ra sd tingali na ts.

You know what, you are able to capture what i feel, murag bali lang sa ako hehehe.. I know I'm a bit unfair towards him but sometimes I just cant help it, feeling the way I do. I feel guilty sometimes kay mura man nako ibalik balik sa iya gud, but what what can I do when it plagues me it really makes me want to get away.. murag pressure kaayo sha sa ako... hahay.. paeta baya ani uy

@BoyasBabis- Ikr? ako gani katong nagbuwag nga dili ing ana kadugay hilak ug murag namatayan unsa na kaha ang 7 years? Especially ang mga laki dili baya ninyo kaayo maexpress since you guys are oriented to be "macho"

@momiji11- any practicals momiji that you can share? pra murag dili ko sigeg pangaway basta makahinumdom ko

[THE KID]

nganung pariha man mo ani niya?haahahahhaha
https://www.istorya.net/forums/love-i...vs-1month.html

[sparkolboi]

kasagaran gkn sa long term relationship it take years man guro 2 recover. based lang sa ako experience karun, gkn ko sa 8yrs relationship wala pa man jud ko ka get over niya. maski nag try naku og panguyab og lain dli pa man mo open ako heart.

[ryan22]

piece of advise: don't be insecure kay mao rana cause sa away na way kwenta