Is it okay ot be afraid of the person who hurt you ?

[clyde2586]

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I just got out of a relationship Oct 30,2011

I was cheated on and until now dli pa motug.an sa tinuod bisag nasakpan na.
Even katong pila pa mi ka months kay cge pa diay sila kuyog sa iyang EX

She was really good at juggling the 2 of us na wala ko naka bantay
Makabantay pa gani ko naa i.call-block ko sa iyang phone - gipasanginlan pa na guba iyang phone daw

I tried to fight for it pero dli na jud madala sa iyang end kay the whole story was unraveling na , and murag dli na cya nahan makahibaw ko sa details. Wala man guro kawatan moangkon

the day nagbuwag mi, in a panic i asked her if pede ko manguyab balik , ingon cya Dec 1 nlng. Even after being cheated on d nako ma deny na love jud nako ang girl.
Nag Dec. 1 na - pero i know nagbalik sila sa iyang EX so d ko makapadaun sa agreement - dli cya muangkon ra ghapon even if kabalo nako..

But.. hadlok najud ko niya.. i know i still have that feeling inside na love pa nako cya.. mao ikyas ikyas ko kay pareha man mi IT park ng work.. hadlok lang ko na if makita nako cya.. mag flood balik tanang feelings nya mahurt nsad ko..
Hadlok sad ko makigbalik kay.. She knows what she's going to be able to expect from me , Loyalty, being faithfully, caring and understanding..kanang sa tarong na uyab gud.. pero.. i dont know what i can expect from her.. i dont even have the assurance na dli na niya mabuhat to sunod..

kamo? normal ra man cugro mahadlok noh ?

[eezychair]

“Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here.”

What you're feeling is normal, but not all things normal is right. Perhaps you should live your life without 'love' in the meantime. Find a diversion, meet new friends and enjoy life.

Obviously, she isn't your true love, yet, or maybe not at all. “True love can not be found where it does not exist, nor can it be denied, where it does.” Cheers and good luck.

[TheDressingRoom]

I think it's normal na mahadlok ka, kay nasakitan man gud ka and besides dili palang kay sad dugay na gabuwag mo. Eventually kung maka move on naka, mawa ranang hadlok na imong na feel. Dapat xa ang mahadlok sa karma na iyang gibuhat nimo.

[mrvs19]

Kung d nmn gane xa mosugot magbalik mo, out of kaulaw nlng pd tngli nya oi, nga napasakitan ka nya. Bsin one day mausob xa marealize nya, nga ikaw d i. Pero move on nlng ts, kay masamutan kag ka hurt ana. I know how it feels nga i-ignore ang imu mga txt n calls. Somehow, mkarealize sd ta oi, ngano imu mn ipagpilit ug txt n call, if that person doesnt want to comunicate with u. Iya nmn na signature, trademark, watever u call it. 2 words for u ts. Move on.

[aztecrevolution]

ayg kahadlok ts. move on lang gyud, pakitaa sya nga malipayon gyud gihapon ka, pohon2 naa ra lageh kay makit-an nga loyal gyud nimu.

[JX]

As the song goes, Its okay not to be okay..

[clyde2586]

Thanks sa mga reply.. i guess it's normal kay bago ra.. sakto sad mo.. give myself the chance to be happy sad.. I told my friends na sometimes if happy nako ma guilty ko kay happy ko,, ingon sila d man na dapat kay wala man daw ko sala.. i guess everyone deserves to be happy at least.. even if wala ang ilang "love" ...

[anchii]

pilay edad nimu??

[ambokz]

I think dli ka dpat ma hadlok,wa man pud dpat khadlukan,kung baga ikaw ang biktima sa situation.there's a lot of fish in the sea ts.bsta pagka kron kay bago pman jud,just enjoy life along with ur family and friends.ayt?

[THE LAST CLONE]

pilay edad nimu??

23 ku, ikaw.?