Random things I notice in relationships:
*Not pertaining to anyone though, mka notice lang ko. It's my opinion, and I'm not trying to be offensive.*
1.
They're not BF & GF, but they tell their partner what & what not to do.
-Dude, you have no right. And it's annoying.
2.
Stopping their BF & GF's dreams just because their partner doesn't want to.
-As their partner, shouldn't you be supporting them?
3.
Making their own decisions for their partner's life.
-Yes, you guys are together, but we still have our own lives too. I'm not saying that one should be minding their own businesses, I'm just saying that you should also hear each other's say in making decisions.
4.
Won't allow their partners to hang out with friends unless the other partner is with them.
-We also have this thing called, "Family" Time, "Partner" Time, "Friends" Time. We need to balance life, and there is time for everything and you're not the only person in this world or rather, in their world.
5.
The partner doesn't want to hang together with the other partner's friends
-Don't you think it's a good thing that you get to be with their friends? Not only you get to know your partner's friends, they get to know you too. Stop being so KJ, LOL!
6.
Won't let their partner talk with the opposite s3x even if they've been friends way before you.
-One can be jealous at some point. But really, are you the only person of the opposite s3x they should talk to?
7.
Won't let their partners talk to those people who has or had a crush on their partner.
-Yes, it can be frightening to think that they might steal your partner away from you. But if your partner really loves you, they won't fall for anyone that easily. Relationships are a matter of trust. If they fall for it, they're no good in the first place.
8.
When they get into a fight, they break up and make up a lot.
-Really, it's not healthy for a relationship. If you have an argument TALK about it, not SHOUT at each other or break up. Try to be calm as possible. If you're angry, breathe and don't talk yet. You might say something you didn't mean and you can't take it back.
9.
You guys are together, but you're not proud of your partner. In short, ika uwaw nimo.
-Question: Why are you together in the first place? Do you think relationships are just for show? I don't think so.
10.
Even though they know their partner is no good to begin with, they still push themselves to be in the relationship.
-You guys aren't married, why stick with them as if you have no choice? Relationships should make you happy, not problematic. You deserve better treatment dear.
*I was bored so I made a random list about these things. Don't get me wrong, I have experienced these stuff too! It's either me or my partner who does that. But I've learned. Hope nalingaw mo!*