Need inputs on my situation. :(

[clone_acct]

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Obviously, naa koy acct dri, clone_acct ni nako. Naa man gud nakaila nko dri.

Anyway, mao ni.

Nagchat mi sa ako boyfriend last monday and we had argument. Actually, i started the argument. I did not reply to his messages kay nilakaw ko, so hanging amu away. The next day until yesterday, ni chat ko nia and dili cya mo reply. Ako cya g.ingnan nga "unsa nmn ato status? we'll talk." Nia karon ni reply na cya.

He told me na stress na kaau cya, ni dungag pa jd ko, na depress pud cya nhibaw.an nga naa cya sakit and its lethal and kailangan jd daw xa motrabaho ug maau kay unsaon nlng daw iya manghod kung ma deads na cya, cya man gud ngpa.swela sa iyang manghod. Nia dali na pud daw cya saputon karon.

So nkadecide nlng cya nga magbuwag nalang mi samtang sau pa daw. Dli nalang pud daw cya mo sud ug relationship tungod sa iya sakit. And ingon cya friends lng daw jpon mi.


PS: Makastress jud tuod iya work and kanang sakit nia dugay na jd na nia gpamati, ga skwela pa mi.

Ni ana nlng ko, ok, kung mao na imo gusto.

Sakto ba ako gtubag nga mosugot nlng nga mgbuwag mi or stay beside him to think he's going through the toughest part sa iya life?

Naa pa diay, I remember him telling me sauna nga kung makasakit man gani ko ako mismo makigbuwag nmu.
Inputs, inputs, thanks.

[cptn_star]

kng ako lang imo pangutan.on ana, NO.

be with him through everything. that's what your relationship is for in the first place.

[sparkolboi]

Big NO jud. support lng ky mas need jud ka niya karun..

[adz]

Obviously, naa koy acct dri, clone_acct ni nako. Naa man gud nakaila nko dri.

Anyway, mao ni.

Nagchat mi sa ako boyfriend last monday and we had argument. Actually, i started the argument. I did not reply to his messages kay nilakaw ko, so hanging amu away. The next day until yesterday, ni chat ko nia and dili cya mo reply. Ako cya g.ingnan nga "unsa nmn ato status? we'll talk." Nia karon ni reply na cya.

He told me na stress na kaau cya, ni dungag pa jd ko, na depress pud cya nhibaw.an nga naa cya sakit and its lethal and kailangan jd daw xa motrabaho ug maau kay unsaon nlng daw iya manghod kung ma deads na cya, cya man gud ngpa.swela sa iyang manghod. Nia dali na pud daw cya saputon karon.

So nkadecide nlng cya nga magbuwag nalang mi samtang sau pa daw. Dli nalang pud daw cya mo sud ug relationship tungod sa iya sakit. And ingon cya friends lng daw jpon mi.


PS: Makastress jud tuod iya work and kanang sakit nia dugay na jd na nia gpamati, ga skwela pa mi.

Ni ana nlng ko, ok, kung mao na imo gusto.

Sakto ba ako gtubag nga mosugot nlng nga mgbuwag mi or stay beside him to think he's going through the toughest part sa iya life?

Inputs, inputs, thanks.

stay beside him TS karun man ka mas kinahanglan sa imong bf and he's having a hard time man diay.. Ayaw lang sad ug cge pangaway sabta nalang ang tao paubos lang.

[THE KID]

og kaya nimo mo stay through sickness and sickness....og huna2 nimo mo lahutay jud ka niya...then stay...pero f dili ka gusto magkalisud sa umaabot...exit....

[clone_acct]

stay beside him TS karun man ka mas kinahanglan sa imong bf and he's having a hard time man diay.. Ayaw lang sad ug cge pangaway sabta nalang ang tao paubos lang.

Karon pa mn sad gud ko khbw nga naa jd diay xa sakit. Maglagot man gud ko ana nia kay dli magsulti daun.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Just asking TS, How much do you love him?

He's sick, he has to work and he has to set you free. I don't want to say "give you up" but would rather use, set you free.

Now you decide for your freedom.

If you love him, would it hurt you that much to stay? Can you stomach the thought of leaving the guy you love because his illness says so?

I know it will be inconvenient for you but as what you've said, he's going through the toughest part of his life and he has given you the choices, you can stay or just agree to leave.

You've also noted that he has to work hard for his family, I don't see any connection with you unless he provides for you as well. I don't think he has to spend that much, of course, since you know his situation.

Maybe your boyfriend thinks you will be having a hard time with you staying around him. He's making things lighter for you even if it means giving you your freedom back.

You can stay as friends anyway, right?

Nah - this is kinda hard. TS, whatever decision you'll make just make sure you won't be regretting about it in the future.

Choose your freedom wisely. God bless both of you.

[ambotani21]

syempre ni decide sya makig buwag kay dli sya gusto ma.apil ka sa iya problema(obvious naman).
shouldn't you atleast show some support and compassion for him at that stage

[LeeLeePot]

don't leave him. he needs you more than he think he does. ngpaka-hero lan ang kagwang. just be emotionally prepared kung magkinaunsa man.

[clone_acct]

Just asking TS, How much do you love him?

He's sick, he has to work and he has to set you free. I don't want to say "give you up" but would rather use, set you free.

Now you decide for your freedom.

If you love him, would it hurt you that much to stay? Can you stomach the thought of leaving the guy you love because his illness says so?

I know it will be inconvenient for you but as what you've said, he's going through the toughest part of his life and he has given you the choices, you can stay or just agree to leave.

You've also noted that he has to work hard for his family, I don't see any connection with you unless he provides for you as well. I don't think he has to spend that much, of course, since you know his situation.

Maybe your boyfriend thinks you will be having a hard time with you staying around him. He's making things lighter for you even if it means giving you your freedom back.

You can stay as friends anyway, right?

Nah - this is kinda hard. TS, whatever decision you'll make just make sure you won't be regretting about it in the future.

Choose your freedom wisely. God bless both of you.

Yes, love him so much, he did this para dko maapil sa iya problema.