What's ur understanding/definition of the female's "virginity"?

[ulyssa_marie]

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I was preparing for swimming training with my other team mates, when i realized i had my menstruation (A.K.A period/red tide/red alert/PMS, etc).

So i called out to my female team mates and asked "does any of you have a tampon?"

They reacted so shocked at the question and answered "no! ull lose your virginity with that!"

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Ofcourse, there are medical/psychological/general definitions of the female "virginity", but nowadays, it differs on the person. So it's a subjective subject.

I've asked several people about 'virginity' and i've concluded the 3 most common definitions:

1) You are considered a virgin if nothing has gone in your vagina (my team mates' understanding. "NOTHING", meaning a finger, a tampon, a *****, etc)

2) you are considered a virgin if your hymen is still in tact. (i find this contradicting coz the hymen can tear from many reasons, either sports, gymnastics, biking, horseback riding, etc.)

3) you are considered a virgin if a p.enis (A.K.A dick/cock/etc), has not entered your vagina. (this i also find curious, because that would mean that girls who masturbate with *****s, vegies, their hands/etc, are STILL considered as virgins since they haven't had a p.enis in them).


I responded to my team mates with the NO.3 definition of virginity and ofcourse, they would prefer to stick to their own definition. it's alright.


Just sharing opinions.

[florigaga]

AS A WOMAN, if we weren't touched and never been kissed by the opposite seks (gituyo nakog misspell kay gisensor), that's when we consider ourselves virgins!

LIKE ME! I'm a virgin! hey! Touched for the very first time!

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[ulyssa_marie]

AS A WOMAN, if we weren't touched and never been kissed by the opposite seks (gituyo nakog misspell kay gisensor), that's when we consider ourselves virgins!

LIKE ME! I'm a virgin! hey! Touched for the very first time!

really?


..............well okay. that's ur understanding.

So if ur dad or ur brother kissed ur cheek, or if ur in playschool and ur best friend, who happened to be a boy kissed ur forehead, or ur big brother's friend kissed ur hand... di naka virgin

oh...okay.

[sparkolboi]

sa ako lng understanding. virgin pa ang girl bsta wala pa cya nahilabtan sa lalake, sa ako lng.

[ulyssa_marie]

sa ako lng understanding. virgin pa ang girl bsta wala pa cya nahilabtan sa lalake, sa ako lng.

Nahlibtan in what sense?

holding hands? kiss sa cheek? etc.

Explain

[florigaga]

really?


..............well okay. that's ur understanding.

So if ur dad or ur brother kissed ur cheek, or if ur in playschool and ur best friend, who happened to be a boy kissed ur forehead, or ur big brother's friend kissed ur hand... di naka virgin

oh...okay.

OT: of course nakisan na ko sa opposite seks. pero wala pa ko nakisan sa leps!

pero someday, hopefully, makisan jud kos lips! kalami lang i-aluch ug ikal ui! wa pa jud ko kasuway.

giluk kaha? lami? or mamatay kos ka-bad breath? or unsa ba?

[azaleayve]

No. 1 & 3 is similar to each other...and i agree on that one...

[florigaga]

kato unta si mark lami to sya kisan!

[ulyssa_marie]

No. 1 & 3 is similar to each other...and i agree on that one...

yes, they are similar. The only difference is that no.1 refers to ANYTHING that goes in - may it be fingers, *****s etc.

But no.3 only considers a man's sexual organ to take virginity away and not any other object.

[jumper_stage]

Nahlibtan in what sense?

holding hands? kiss sa cheek? etc.

Explain

basta mahuboan na gani og panty og motong-tong na ang laki