Need advice...Father in-law having an affair

[ajkj]

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We have a problem right now..
My father has been having an affair with a woman with one kid. The woman is just living in with his partner, which happens to be our neighbor right now.
We learn about this because we saw his text messages to the girl, the sending of money to that girl who is currently visiting her parents at masbate.
Father did not know that we already knew what he's into right now.
We do not know what to do, we feel that this girl was just manipulating my father-in-law.
We were very worried about him, worried that our neighbor will found out about him and that woman.
What should we do?
Should we confront the girl?
Should we tell the our neighbor?

Please help...

[nilbud]

sagdi na bro naa naman na hehe

[noel_llapa]

confront your father-in-law first.

[baloy]

act fast and confront your father in law. man to man talk is best in this situation

[want2binvolve]

1st- confront your father in- law
2nd- let him do the rest... hehe

if not effective... second option- confront the girl... careful mo anang iconfront ang partner sa girl kai tyg imo father in- law mabuthan... wa ta kabaw unsai mabuhat sa tao ug masuko...

[bowee]

@TS..

my take.. leave the problem for the family to solve... Confronting your father in law is not a good and proper way of solving things.

I take that your husband or your wife(if your a guy TS), knows about it already right? your husband (his son) or your wife (his daughter), should be the one to take the effort to tell or present this problem to the family. NOT YOU. Because if you are the one who would solely make an effort to resolve this issue, it would perhaps just come out that you might appear as the "KONTRABIDA" unya sa family sa imong wife, or sa imong husband...

Let the family members solve this problem. IT IS A FAMILY problem and it for me, the problem should be solve by the FAMILY itself. Present the problem to the family members. Discuss means and solutions on how to solve it and work as a family to resolve it.

My take only.. GOOD LUCK!

[Htennek]

i agree with bowee

[jumper_stage]

sumbaga kausa imong papa bro og iparok ang ulo sa haligi sa bongbong bro aron maka matngon nga sayop iyang gibuhat

..kusga' bro ha

[ajkj]

Thanks for all the advices.