Does First and Forever Relationship Happen These Days?

[edgeowns]

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I mean, having a first lover at your teen(or whenever) life, then lasting forever? Is it possible at this time and age when people seem so easy to jump/find another?

Not talking about both man and woman, but even if one of the two.

I think its possible, however very very very rare.

[duchess]

yah..rare.. very rare nalang jud na.... mga "once in a blue moon" nalang nah mahitabo

[edgeowns]

What do you think is the reason that most cant? Cuz they dont care of working out problems? Cant wait to try others or what?

Based on observations, I guess some can still last longer than they can but rather give up too easily for whatever reasons. I mean if you really love the person or really into the relationship, no obstacle can come in your way(except cheating).

[duchess]

your asking for reasons? hmmnnn here are my thoughts lang ha...

one could be that there are just so many distractions now unlike in the past. Simple ra ang life sa una. Kadto mga teens sa una kay school-house house-school lang. karon kay naa na ang malls and the night life so daghan na possibility of meeting other people so makathink twice na sila about the person they are with at the moment.

another could be that there are so many opportunities waiting for them. Karon gud kay daghan na options ang mga tawo. Kung baga..practical na. Like for example, people tend to go abroad for greener pastures. In doing so, they leave their loved ones behind. Once there, they could find someone else.

Some people would choose career over their relationship. This could be another reason.

another though came into my mind. basin ang mga tawo sa una kay pasensyoso ug pasensyosa lang jud. kana bang "mo-antus" nga type mao nga hin-last ang relationship. Karon gud kay gamay nga problema, bulag dayon.

maybe naa pay lain reasons nga wala pa lang nako nathink..maybe others can also share hehehe

[edgeowns]

Well whatever the reasons, as I said, and you pointed out, if people got patience lang and would really strive to make it work out, they can man.

Today, the word love has been whored to death. Its so easy to say "I love you" and so easy to break up. Easy to say "I love you" again to the next dozen people. lol.

[duchess]

yah... for some it's so easy.... but not to all.. not in my case

[grlnxtdor16]

its very rare because only very few are willing to work out their differences, love each other unconditionally, and be loyal only to each other...

[nolex]

i guess so

[lhykah]

we can never
really tell
if its lasting or not
because life is like a wheel
but still we are in
control of our destiny...

[poymode]

Ako kontento naman jud ko

bilib man sad ko nga naa juy muilis

pero forever!