Mam! Dad! Im sorry, Im gay!

[*dudes*]

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[aridoasis]

pardon me, but this article, or any article, as a matter of fact, which discusses the "facts" of being gay and possibilities of "healing" this "condition" should not be considered absolute. one can study the gay lifestyle, one can try to analyze the root of "turning gay", but it all boils down that nobody can understand gay people other than themselves, yet, an article by one person is not enough to speak ofr an entire community. not all people have the same life experiences. not all gays will concur with what is written. also, basing conclusions from biblical scriptures is no way to standardize and outcast being gay. why? not all people are christians, and not all people have a religion. would the above-written article therefore apply to a hindu, a buddhist, or an aethiest? i think not.

not to be rude or anything, but being gay has become a fact of life. this sexual orientation probably existed long before the increaseing revelations of today's society. a few centuries ago, women were only good for the household, and blacks were only good as slaves, but as society evolved, these beliefs have been wiped out. why are gay people coming out of hiding? because society is evolving. why be ashamed of having a gay son or a lesbian daughter? is it because they are different? that is vividly absurd. it is often that the gay lifestyle is linked with a highly sexual lifestye. but is it not true that even many heterosexuals have highly sexual lifestyles as well? then, why the big fuss? being homosexual has long been the target of heated skepticism and discrimination because the lifestyle is not adherent to tradition and the norms of society. this is the bottom line. and, unless people start opening their eyes, this sort of ignorance will persevere.

[*dudes*]

pardon me, but this article, or any article, as a matter of fact, which discusses the "facts" of being gay and possibilities of "healing" this "condition" should not be considered absolute. one can study the gay lifestyle, one can try to analyze the root of "turning gay", but it all boils down that nobody can understand gay people other than themselves, yet, an article by one person is not enough to speak ofr an entire community. not all people have the same life experiences. not all gays will concur with what is written. also, basing conclusions from biblical scriptures is no way to standardize and outcast being gay. why? not all people are christians, and not all people have a religion. would the above-written article therefore apply to a hindu, a buddhist, or an aethiest? i think not.

not to be rude or anything, but being gay has become a fact of life. this sexual orientation probably existed long before the increaseing revelations of today's society. a few centuries ago, women were only good for the household, and blacks were only good as slaves, but as society evolved, these beliefs have been wiped out. why are gay people coming out of hiding? because society is evolving. why be ashamed of having a gay son or a lesbian daughter? is it because they are different? that is vividly absurd. it is often that the gay lifestyle is linked with a highly sexual lifestye. but is it not true that even many heterosexuals have highly sexual lifestyles as well? then, why the big fuss? being homosexual has long been the target of heated skepticism and discrimination because the lifestyle is not adherent to tradition and the norms of society. this is the bottom line. and, unless people start opening their eyes, this sort of ignorance will persevere.

ok, i respect your opinion regarding this matter, but for me, this speaks the reality over my life, bible brings freedom in my life from unnecessary bondages over my life like demonic oppression, or any sexual addiction, the reason why i posted this article because this is my heart's desire to bring hope to others, that freedom is possible and relating to same *** in a healthy manner is more fulfilling and satisfying than the erotic way, for i personally believe that we are originally designed to be like this, i mean as being heterosexuals

I may not satisfy you in my explaination but deep in my heart this issue is settled and whatever things that benefited me --- I am sharing this to others so they might also get benefited.

Peace

[labyrinthbw]

ok, i respect your opinion regarding this matter, but for me, this speaks the reality over my life, bible brings freedom in my life from unnecessary bondages over my life like demonic oppression, or any sexual addiction, the reason why i posted this article because this is my heart's desire to bring hope to others, that freedom is possible and relating to same *** in a healthy manner is more fulfilling and satisfying than the erotic way, for i personally believe that we are originally designed to be like this, i mean as being heterosexuals

Peace

whatever the issue is, as long as we find solace in the arms of our Saviour, there will always be peace...in our minds and in our hearts...

what caught me was the title of this thread: "Mam! Dad! Im sorry, Im gay!"

what should a gay be sorry for?

[*dudes*]

whatever the issue is, as long as we find solace in the arms of our Saviour, there will always be peace...in our minds and in our hearts...

what caught me was the title of this thread: "Mam! Dad! Im sorry, Im gay!"

what should a gay be sorry for?

parents have a great role in developing an healthy social life of their children, the reason i put "Mad, Dad, Im sorry, Im gay!" to emphasize the importance role of a parent in their children's life.

[labyrinthbw]

@*dudes*

sorry po... i didn't see it that way...
but of course you're right...
parents should provide support to their gay children...

[*dudes*]

@*dudes*

sorry po... i didn't see it that way...
but of course you're right...
parents should provide support to their gay children...

what i mean is homosexuality develops because of the failure of the parents responsibility to affirm their children

[Zahara]

I don't see anything wrong with being gay...

[*dudes*]

I don't see anything wrong with being gay...

we'll if you agree with me or not, homosexuality is a sinful way of coping up what is missing in our life, within ourselves

[lestat1116]

we'll if you agree with me or not, homosexuality is a sinful way of coping up what is missing in our life, within ourselves

agree w/ title
for the title. mao na ingon cya i'm sorry, i'm gay.
coz ang parents nagexpect normal ang anak nila.

kung ako ang father sukmagon jud nako ba.