What can you say/advice about my dilemma

[The Ghost of Tom Jones]

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im inlove with a girl whos annuled and has a son. i have accepted her past but recently we broke up because i found out that my parents will not support the relationship.

i have a very close relationship with my family and i dont want to dissapoint my parents, and its very hard na dili gnhan ang imung pamilya sa girl na possibly ako ma marry.

yeah i know that wala right mag bout ang parents kung kinsa pilion but i know that if i will do this there will be a possibility na magka away me sa akong parents and i also dont want that.

my problem is, how can i convince my parents to support the relationship.
should i fight for the relationship or move on to find another girl?

what can you say? advice? or anyone has a similar experience?

serious lang ta way bugal2x!

[LeeLeePot]

fight for the girl you love. fight until you get your parents convinced na seryoso jud ka..mura lan gud labstori ni Dao Min Su ug San Cai..heheh..dba d man gnahan iyang mama atong san cai? ana ra...fight for it..you wouldn't want to make it as something you didn't do anything for when you grow old and start looking back, right?

[aLohaBby]

lisoda bitaw ani oi.... sakit and discriminating kaayo para namo'ng mga single moms
maybe you should try to find out the real reason nganong dili sila ganahan... if mu ingon sila "kay naa siya'y anak", then ask "ngano man diay? unsa ma'y difference ana sa uban babae?" and other questions... find out unsa jud ang root ba, from there you'll find an idea how you're going to go about it...

if you're really sure about this girl and very sincere with your feelings, then i suggest you should fight for her... pero dili nimo awayon imong parents.. just talk to them nicely lang... bahalg mu ulbo ilang kaspa... pa ubos lang jud ky they're your parents anyway, but you have your own life... they can't dictate you what to do in order to be happy.....

[hayden]

Tom who will you be spending your time more, your parents or that woman? If you think having a relationship with that woman is worth it then defy your parents, otherwise...

[sugbuana]

Listen to your parents, they know what is good for you. Ayaw padalos-dalos ug desisyon pakasal kay dili maayu ang kaminyoon nga walay basbas sa pamilya...

[baning]

Follow your heart... If you think she is worth it then fight for her. But based on what you are saying, murag dili man ka sure niya... You already broke up with her in the first place since you are scared to defy your parents... So id suggest na find another girl na you think ma accept sa imo parents...

[kaZzzPer]

i think it's difficult to give a definite advice (can advice be definite? ) by what you just wrote here. murag kulang.
so answer these questions first:

what's the reason behind her (first) annulment?
reasons why your parents or family do not like her? (have you asked your parents this question straight in the face?)
who initiated the breakup?
how long is your relationship
how old are you?
are you independent?
is she independent?
who's supporting the kid? kid's father?
what else?

coz i'd like to know if your parents are wrong and you are right or vice versa before i can say my advice.

[ylegna]

fight for the one you love. kabaw ko nga lisod jud na imo sitwasyon pero if love ka sa imo parents, eventually, madawat ra nila ang grl na imong na inlaban karon. lisod na xa sa start, naa jud na away2. pero pasabta ra sad imong parents sa sitwasyon. kabaw ko nga naga think ra na imo parents sa imo future or kung unsa man ang ingnon sa laing tao pero kever ra na ang ingnon sa lain oi, dili baya sila ang makig relasyon sa grl ha, ikaw baya. isa pa, imo mana desisyon, imo jud nang resposibility. pasabta lang jud imo parents.

[aridoasis]

It's always difficult when the family disapproves, but if you really love her, it's best to follow your heart rather than be stuck with the thought of what could have been if you didn't. Family is family, and if your bond with your family is as strong as you say, they will learn to accept your decision.

I've been in a similar situation before, and although that relationship ultimately ended, it was not because of my family. And I'm happy that I followed my heart.

[r51d3r19]

mejo makarelate sad ko sa imo problem TS. ive fought hard before for the girl bahala malain ako family but in the end...we still broke up.

ila-ilaha sa ug maayo ang girl kung angay ba jud nimo e-fight kay para walay mahay in the end.