My mom is UNFAIR

[jocylanne]

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Hi Guys,

I have this feeling since im still a kid. Im the eldest of the family. then i have one brother. I always felt na favoriate jud akong brother sa akong mama og papa.. Everytime he wants things naa jud dayon.. if im the one who ask for something i still have to do things just to please them.

My brother got married last year. coz his girlfriend got pregnant. my brother dont have a stable job, then at the time during his wedding my parents are the one whose paying all the expenses for his wedding... ngutang sila sa mga relatives namo.. iya gibaligya amo yuta para lng sa kasal sa akong brother. after my sister in law naganak in a CS operation then still my parents are the one paying for it.

It comes to the point na I wanted to get married nsad. so my parents wants a church wedding. but my partner and i decided na mag civil lng mi coz we dont have enough budget.

During my civil wedding i havent felt my mama's support.. for her its just a normal day na ni drop by sa city hall after nikuyog sa restaurant para manga-on. She dont even ask me if i need something. even on my wedding ring na ako gipanso sa credit card niya iya paman gani ko gipaningil.

we had an arque last week i told her what i feel.. but still she get angry with me.. sulti pa niya luooy nimo nag self pity ka.. and ana pa cya kung ingana imo batasan biyaan lng daw ko sa akong bana.. basta ako siya gitubag-tubag sa akong kalagot..


sayop ba na nitubag ko niya? pero still iyang mga response nko mura rko dli niya anak.. ngano man daw mghasol pko niya na minyo namn daw ko.. adto daw ko mghasol sa akong bana.. pero akong brother lagi minyo na ngano cya man gihapon tanan?

pls correct me... kung unsa man sayop sa akong point of view..

[THE KID]

sakto ang imong gibuhat sis...angay jud nga makabaw imong mama sa imong kaligotgot.....f open xa og mind...dili ta xa masuko....gurl ka..supposedly mo support jud na imong mama nimo kai babay pud siya.....d pud ko ka judge jud og nganung ingon ana sila......cge lang ako ni i suway og share sa akong mama unsai iyang insights ani............

[necrotic freak]

i think there is something behind all these bias treatment sa imong mother..

[Blackbeard]

well, you weren't wrong about confronting her since it's clearly eating you up inside. now though, it's time you move on. I'm not saying you should estrange yourself from them, or dislike or hate them, but you now have a new life, that's where your focus must be.

[jocylanne]

sakto ang imong gibuhat sis...angay jud nga makabaw imong mama sa imong kaligotgot.....f open xa og mind...dili ta xa masuko....gurl ka..supposedly mo support jud na imong mama nimo kai babay pud siya.....d pud ko ka judge jud og nganung ingon ana sila......cge lang ako ni i suway og share sa akong mama unsai iyang insights ani............

Btw noh grl ko. but i never felt na akong mom ni support nko. even before mag shopping mi naa ko gusto she always say na wla man kay anagay ana.. mas bagay na nko.. paet maayo pa ako mga aunte's ky kana mga important event sa akong life naa jud sila para mgpaayon nko.. but my mom wla.

[RemohDude]

ok rana sis woi..take it as a challenge anyway u have ur own family after all of ur sufferings from ur mother..but still a mother is always a mother..never give them an inch of grudge of u..they will just realize those mistakes and shortcomings soon..but for now just focus ur attention to ur own family and pray for blessings as well..good luck!!!

[akimz]

basin ampon ka JOKe . . . . . . bitaw makalagot sd lague na ing-ana faet . . . maayo gani sa amo family akong parents ky wala xa favorite sa amoa fair treatment ra tanan sa amo magsuun

paning-kamot nalang sa imo new life and be happy

[polarisvenus]

sorry to say this sis pro sa ako insight dili sab jud sakto nga tubag tubagon nimo imo mama maski unsa pa ka kalagot ky u owe your life from her jud. Cguro a cool and level-headed confrontation will do. usa pa sis married na ka, dapat independent na ka sa imo mom, ayaw pag compare against sa imo bro nga tago japon saya sa imo mama. Dapat sab na imo husband na ang responsible sa nu needs. anywayz sis juz pray, everything has its own reason

[jocylanne]

ok rana sis woi..take it as a challenge anyway u have ur own family after all of ur sufferings from ur mother..but still a mother is always a mother..never give them an inch of grudge of u..they will just realize those mistakes and shortcomings soon..but for now just focus ur attention to ur own family and pray for blessings as well..good luck!!!

nahiubos lng gud ko sa akong mama ky last sunday nag pabunyag sila sa anak sa akong manghud.. cge lng sila ingon nko wla silay kwarta then after naghikay og dako.. feel jud nko na dli ko importante.. basta ako zero sila permi

[jocylanne]

sorry to say this sis pro sa ako insight dili sab jud sakto nga tubag tubagon nimo imo mama maski unsa pa ka kalagot ky u owe your life from her jud. Cguro a cool and level-headed confrontation will do. usa pa sis married na ka, dapat independent na ka sa imo mom, ayaw pag compare against sa imo bro nga tago japon saya sa imo mama. Dapat sab na imo husband na ang responsible sa nu needs. anywayz sis juz pray, everything has its own reason

yeah i know sukad pag kasal nko.. wla nman jud ko nag ask sa akong mama..even single pko kung naa lng jud ko musulti cya nko ako man taga-an my point is ngano sa akong brother grabe man kaayo iyang support then ako even a single consideration lng wla... im not a type of person man sad na mangayo maghulat ra jud ko kung taga-an pero.. at my important day of my life wla lng jud cya pakabana nko. even ask me kung kaya paba sa akong budget o wla na.. as in wla jud