Hi fellow istoryans please help me... I mean share mo sa inyong thoughts palihug be... As in if sa imo na jud diay mahitabo ang situation lisod tambagan imong self... I consider myself a very good counselor to others when it comes to love pero dili sa akong self. I was once madly inlove with someone but things did not work so my heart ended up into broken pieces... it took me some time to pick up the pieces and heal. Og karon nga almost healed na or I think healed na jud coz I remember the boy but I don't remember the feelings anymore...og karon murag I'm about to fall with someone na sad... I mean we are dating and getting to know each other pero once a week ra jud mi klaro magkatalk kay busy jud ko pirme og sya sad... Yes, I miss the feeling of being inlove and be loved...pero di kalikayan nga murag mahadlok na ko mogamble kay basin mapildi na sad ko...shall I let my heart just fall? Unsa akong angay buhaton? I mean I don't know if nakasabot ba mo nako pero it hurts when love fails... I wanna guard my heart and love wisely. Di lang kay padalos dalos nalang ko sa akong gibati...Is being inlove just a state of mind and controllable ra? How can I tell man nga seryoso jud sya nko? Wa ko nag generalize pero wary nalang sad ko kay akong bestfriend bag-o lang jud nabiktima og multiple timer nga guy... as in she found out nga 5 sila kabuok nga gf sa iyang ex...
Nagsugod na akong problema og nagstart na og ka complicated akong life because mag expect na man ko sa iyang time and attention... Ako maski busy mo take time jud ko makig communicate niya and so in return, murag mag expect na sad ko sa iyang time and attention... That part is what I hate the most... Di ko ganahan naay expectations... coz mahadlok ko masakitan og ma disappoint...
Please post your insights mga istoryans unsa inyo buhaton if kamo naa sa akong place...I'm confused