unsa imong dapat buhaton if your the other woman

[dulcee]

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nakoy situation guys..i'm a single woman, sexy,tall,pretty and nice and i have a longterm boyfriend almost 5 yrs nami..he's tall,gwapo as in!bootan..perfect pair daw kunuhay ingon sila..mura mig negative and positive sides sa battery..hilomon xa,tabian ko..opposite attracts jud! we're always together, nag live in nami..but we are not planning for a child.nalayo ko sa iya for 4 months kay nagwork ko sa manila,tungod sa kamingaw nako sa iya giuli japon ko dani sa province para magkauban mi..so dani ko nangita again og work.
nagwork nako..and at first all are ok.my relationship with my co-worker ok, with my boss ok. they treat me right wala koy nakita o na feel nga malice..sa akong 3rd month my gosh! nag express og feelings akong boss sa ako..I know his married and kabalo xa about my status nga live in ko sa ako Bf..misky ako na xa gipa stop sa iyang uros uros nga gugma, but still gapadaun gihapon sya..and gefocus nko ako self sa work..and then every uli nko ma shock nlang ko masuko ako bf nako mag cge mi away! i asked him why and then he replied: BUSY NA KAAU KA SA IMONG WORK, LOSYANG NA KAAU KO KA KAY CGE OG WORK!NO TIME FOR ME AND KAPOYAN NAKA PERMI IF MAG MAKE LOVE TA..at first wala nako gipansin but nagdugay nama jud! gikapoy nkog uli..so cge nako og overtime and if muuli ko sa among balay najud sa akong parents..so usahay madungan mi sa akong boss, nay tmes nga ga ihatud ko nya..and i like his company! we're happy if we're together! I'm falling in love na sa iyaha..and so sya pod! what will I do?akong uyab wala kabalo nga nag cheat ko sa iyaha..and his wife kabalo na sa amoa..in short na kabet ko n boss!
Unsa akong buhaton?unsaon nako akong uyabi love him but I find him boring..while my other Bf(boss) were so happy and our day is complete if uban mi..do I still love my bf?does he(boss) loves me ?and the wife is threatening me..what will I do??please help me....

[LAPA]

wheeew. confusing.

iweigh kinsa nila ang mas bug-at sa imong heart. ana lang.. find out who really completes you and makes you happy.

[ronchiejames]

Kabalo ka maam, exciting jud na kay its cheating(ikaw cheating ka sa imong boyfriend, imo pod boss is cheating his wife and family).... boring jud na imong boyfriend cause its long term, try pod og effort to give him time and make arrangement to go out.
ani nalng ang buhata, try to visualize yourself a year or two from now and see kung unsa imong makita...

do you see yourself, ingon ana lang gihapon and until when will it last...who will stand by you through thick and thin jud.
try to see what are the consequences.... and check if its worth the risk...
Try not to think of yourself for a moment... think of your bf's feeling, your boss wife is feeling, what other people will think about you... if you can live with it...

personally, i will tell you nkaligis ka og mga taw... so dili maayo padayunon... your happiness at the expense of others... its good that you are still open for changes...
It happens in a relationship specially when your settling that you will feel bored and time likes this ALWAYS come, what matters is what you will do...

[saitohkiyohiru]

Dang! Angay pa ba ni ipangutana? Nganu mu sud man jud ka ug gubot? KUn di na ka sa imo uyab, buwagi. Imo boss, naa na anak? Ganahan ka na breaker of families? If magka kamo jud sa imo boss, be prepared to be the tig salo sa responsibilities as the 2nd mother. Now what is your assurance that your boss wouldn't do the same thing to you, once kamo na? Don't be ridiculous if you think this won't happen to you. We cannot help you. Help yourself by getting out before it ruins you completely.

[dulcee]

salamat kaau sa mga reply ninyo ha?
karun medyo nakaginhawa nko gamay..wala koy mastoryahan ani misky my friends or families...coz i know man from the start nga it's a sin falling inlove with my boss! dili man ako ang reason why makigbulag sya sa iyang wife i told him already nga basin mauli ra ang kamo before but sad to say he replied seriously: KUN DILI KAMING DUHA ANG MAGDAYUN DILI SAd SILA NI WIFEY..NA FALL OUT OF LOVE NAXA..my boss, he is so good, soft spoken, hilomon, find solution sa ubang tao nga problema..and gakalooy lang ko i know he is a responsible father..kay mulakaw naxa to fetch his children, having dinner with them without his wife..and before na kami na na silay problema..ang ako lang is pag byaan nako xa..I can feel manjud nga he really needs me..i think naa problem sa otok iyang wife...ok ill update you kun unsa ang results..but can anyone give me some more advice?

[recca_]

nakapasakit naka ug pamilya maam. ayaw ana.. d mn gyud na maau. palayo nalng...

[doom_angel]

sis,

deskarte ra man na sa laki or baye na mangabit nga mo ingon na before pa nagkasila naa na problema sa ila partner. basta modiskarte na gani, pa louy2 dayon, nya daoton ang partner, daghan ayo reklamo, sayop tanan sa partner

ATIK ra na tanan woi

awa ug kamo na sad, ikaw na sad ang bati/ problema, magpa louy2 na sad sa bag-o, fresh ug more xciting na prospect.

then the cycle repeats

[Dax101106]

Kabalo man diay kah sa start pah nga dili siya maayo diba... Ngano ni padayon man kah... Happy kah kay bag-o paman mo... Same gud gihapun sa imo uyab nga bag-o pamo... Diba mura ug fairy tale ang storya... Ana jud nah... The time comes nga kamo nasad ang mag-ka conflict kay mas dako jud ang gubot kay ni patol kah ug minyo... Ang mga girls man gud kay happiness rana ilang gusto... Dili sila kabalo how to make it happy ang relationship...

If magka dugay nana inyong relationship sa imong boss kay magka dako ang conflict ana... It would like a volcano if mo boto na... Negative ang imong image ana sa office kay ikaw ang girl... Negative ang imong negative ana sa imong uyab... Ug sa imong family nga ni sakay kah ug usa kah minyo ug pamilyadong dako... SO ITS ALL NEGATIVE JUD... You think nga happy kah sa iyaha and i would say its like a fairytale ang imong na feel karon if youre with your boss... I warn you... ANG FAIRYTALE KAY DILI NAH SIYA APPLICABLE SA REAL LIFE...

Im not saying to continue that or leave that kind of relationship...

Its up to you how you will maneuver your ship since that you have choose the wrong turn...

[LAPA]

wheeew. confusing.

iweigh kinsa nila ang mas bug-at sa imong heart. ana lang.. find out who really completes you and makes you happy.

just quit. that would be the best decision you can do for yourself.

[iAmback]

love kaau ka sa imong boss sis kay dili raman S3X iyang gi apas nimo...pakaslan pa gyud ka ana.

just be patient...just wait for lets say a hundred years. kaya mo yan! ikaw pa!