How should a wife let go of a husband?

[yanx]

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Bana nako still stays with us yet he told his mistress na dili na sya nako...

[krizz]

u have to accept the fact,na di na sya nimo ky nana siyay lain. learn to live on your own without him.. wen u love sumone u have to learn to let him go.

[keiichi lyrce]

lisod manang sitwasyona..

just be true to your self..

kung naa pa siyay pagbati nimo dili unta ka niya pasakitan..

kung nahigugma ka usa ka tao dili ka makahimog mopasakit niya.. "diba"

[yanx]

tinuod bitaw na!mao jud na ako ginahuna huna..pro sya murag lipay kaau sya na pasakitan ko..

ako na bitaw na syang ginaingnan na muapas nlng sya sa iyang kabit pero until karn naa ra gyapn sa amoa...i even befriended his mistress aron makabalo ko kung unsa jud ila plans, in fact ginaingnan nko sya na kuhaon na nya ako bana...

[unofficialplayer]

have you asked him why he still wants to live with you? why he won't pack up and go to his mistress? there must be a something other than it makes him happy to see u in pain. have you tried asking him for the underlying reason?

quite hard to live in the same roof with someone who has hurt you. you'd be reminded of the pain over and over and over... how are you holding up?

[keiichi lyrce]

ayaw pag pinamartir.. kay ikaw ray masakitan..
prangkahi nalang siya..
unsa may purpose na mag ipon mong duha na dili ka niya love..

[yanx]

mao sad na ako ginapangutana. Once i asked him kung kinsa ba jud iyahang love..he said pareho daw.would you believe that? sakitan kaayo ko eh.

ngano dili sya muhawa sa amoa, tingali mahadlok syag madaot iyang reputasyon. unfair gani kaau sa akoa kay sige lang ko nya pahulat kung kanus a sya muhawa. mag sige lng syag sulti na muhawa jud lagi sya, hulat lang daw ko. selfish jud klase na tawhana no! according sa iyahang mistress kay unstable pa kuno silang duha...tingali nag stay ghapon sya namo until such time na stable na sad sya. selfish jud no!

ako sad tanga kay i dont have the guts to get rid of him...

[keiichi lyrce]

[size=24px]wow !!! [/size]
what a guts she have..

baga-a sad ug nawong anang imong bana gud.. palayasa na!!
i think na nangipon ra mo sa imong parents.. am i right..

[yanx]

dili bya...actually baga jud sya ug tanga ra sad kaau ko! naglisod na jud bitaw kaayo ko. in fairness man gud maau man sya na pgkatao. maong naglisod ko kay sge mn ghapon kog hope na mahuman ra jud cla. unya kung naa syag ginahimo o gnahatag sa ako, big deal na daun sa akoa...huna huna daun ko na tingali love pa jud ko nya...

pro ktong gtx sa iyang kabit 2ng iyang gtx na dili na sya nako, mao tong nakamata bitaw ko. tingalig gnakataw an ko niya sa akong mga paningkamot na mubalik iyang pagtrato nako. everything i do is useless diay...

[unofficialplayer]

no. don't go bashing yourself because you can't let go of him. it happens to everyone who has felt love, given love and wanted to be loved back. don't wallow in self pity. be strong. hold your head high.

u said u don't have the guts to get rid of him. u know, if u really wanted to, u can. but then again u don't want to because u still hope you can make him love you back. there's that tiny bit of hope flickering deep in you. that makes you human.

let me ask you, do u want to fight for him? do you have enough strength to do so? would u sacrifice everything and anything even your self-esteem just to have him back? do you want to continue your set-up because u think there's still hope for the both of you?