Religion is tearing Us Apart

[maraksot23]

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Here's my story..

ALL about our religion sku BF, I am a christian, UCCP (Protestant) and his a SDA ( Sabadista). Both of us our active in church. bag.o lng mi nag 1 yr ds month. the problem is maglalis mi f mgtalk nmi ana nga thing.. about "CHURCH".. 'coz ako nhan ko, sa amu simbahan lng ko mu cmba pwo iya mn gud ko pacmbahon s ila nya mucmba lng sad sd xa s amu.. before pa mi ng uyab ana ko nya, "IF EVER KASLON KO DAPAT SA AMU CHURCH".. karon as time goes by kabantay ko sa cge nku ug cmba dd2 nailhan nku s iyang famly and they expect nga dd2 ko mu cmba until mgkafamily n dw kami.. but d ko nhan bayaan amu church nya, ACTIVE pud bya ko dd2.. di ko nhan nga mu abot ang point nga MAGMINYO mi nya wa claro knsa priest/pastor.. nalibog jud ko..

and kani pa, nikuyog ako BF amu place, gilutuan mi ako mama ug nilagang baboy, fried shrimp ug adobo nga nokos. nakalimot ako mama dli mn diay cla mu eat ana. Mao nagpalit nlng mi fried fish s akong uyab. nya nag.ask ako mama, ky nag ask dw ako papa y SDA ako g.uyab..

GUYS.. need ur advices, suggestions.. pls to those serious lang, thanks!

[darkraven]

true love doesn't have any boundaries...

if nahan jud mo to be together, talk mo and come up on how to deal with your "Religion" issue....

if mas great jud inyo Respect sa inyo religion, lisod jud inyo situation..

bisag asa nga Religion, Our supreme being wants us to be happy.. Happy ta nga wala tay gipasakitan nga lain tao

[maraksot23]

uu, nhan ko sa amu religion ky lain man if 2 amu religion dba?

[organizedchaos]

uu, nhan ko sa amu religion ky lain man if 2 amu religion dba?

you should have taken that to account before going into a relationship with him... it seems like so selfish of u to assume that he will switch.. maybe it would have been easier kung roman catholic ra imo bf kay maka adapt ra if he's willing to... pero if ana pareho mo complicated kau... one has to give in... i doubt if you will... and much more from him.. sorry sis but it looks grim as far as how this would end to yer liking.. but then again.. nothing is impossible with love dba... gd luck sis!

[miakka070]

lisod jud inyo situation sis..though wa pko k try iba ang religion from mine.but dapat talk mu anah... affected jud inyo future ana kng walai mo give-in ninyo. Sa ako part kng mkahibaw ko iba ang religion sa guy kai mg duha2 nman koh..dli mnjud ingn devotee mi sa ko family but ang future ang at risk gd.. mg unsa nalng inyo anak asa mn cla nya adto cmba..dba?

[yvonne6]

respitaay na lang oi. ang religion wala nay labot sa gugma oi. di pa gani mo mag asawa, gi diktahan naka, how much more kung asawa na gyud ka?

[cjmagowan]

para way gubot ayaw nlng mog simba... pag.ampo nlng mos tagsa2x ninyo nga kaugalingon... total d btaw mamili ang Ginoo kng unsay relihiyon nmo, ang imo btawng pagkatawo..

and pra nko we don't need to go to church just to talk to God... God is in our hearts and that's where God resides.

[_spectre]

That's hard sis. You've got to make a decision at some point in your relationship if you can compromise this aspect. Dapat respeto lang tana mo sa inyong faith ug way pugsanay. This is not new, daghan na ing ani na cases na nag minyo gyud nya nilahotay ghapon. It all comes down to respect sis. Anyway one year pa man mo. Just observe if you two can work it out in the long run.

[GuyOfYourDreams]

There should one of you two that will give way and join the denomination of the other.

Both of you are free to choose which religion/organization you want to reside but for the sake of the child you will be having one the future of course you have to choose only one church to do your worship with your family, so that the child will not be confused by different doctrines of those churches.

I have known somebody who have been into a situation like yours. What happened is that the girl submitted to his husband & joined the other organization. There she continued her ministry. But of course she did not just submitted and left her church just because she wants to follow her husband. She weighed & considered things like where she is needed most. The girl belonged to a big church, mostly rich people would come & most of all there are so many of them cannot be used in the ministries anymore because of the quantity they have in church. Unlike where the guy is kinda few members & only few of those few are skilled enough to do act to make the church growing. Anyway both of the organizations are born again Christians.

I shared a little of their story to you hoping this can help give you idea on how you are going to deal with you situation right now.

[j.alob]

kamo ra maka solve ana..

better to solve before marriage