The Mentality

[emjee17]

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"You can't forget a person you love so much no matter how much you try to do it. It's impossible, unless you learn to love somebody else."


*should you really love someone for you to forget the previous one?
*can't you solve your own problem dealing with the aftermath of such turn-over?
*how can you love someone when your feelings are still bottled up with the previous? So, labas ana panakip-butas ang sunod?

I've been bombarded by some people with this concern and somehow it has caught my attention to the point that I started to question the kind of mentality set that they have.

Share your insights.

[Peenut]

It's not like that.

Don't ruin your perception just because of peer pressure. It'll blow up your mind.

Ahm...

* You can't forget that "previous one" if you don't have amnesia.
* You can solve such crisis. See the bigger view and brighter side if you learn to
*Each one of us can love people. It really matters on how we treat them. That "next one" will either change your mind and feelings or may create another disaster. So when finding that "next-one" it is better to step up and see that real inner beauty which is essential into our eyes.


If you are bombarded by thoughts, gear up with an ethereal quality.

[Soul Doctor]

"You can't forget a person you love so much no matter how much you try to do it. It's impossible, unless you learn to love somebody else."


*should you really love someone for you to forget the previous one?
*can't you solve your own problem dealing with the aftermath of such turn-over?
*how can you love someone when your feelings are still bottled up with the previous? So, labas ana panakip-butas ang sunod?

I've been bombarded by some people with this concern and somehow it has caught my attention to the point that I started to question the kind of mentality set that they have.

Share your insights.

you can love yourself.
it is the easiest thing to do.

find your strengths.
find your passion.
love yourself.
then the right man will come and love you too.

[Ronn926]

i use to love someone else para m-forgot nako akong unfaithful na bf. but u know what, i find out na gi-ilad ra nako akong self ato. kay deep inside, d mpulihan ang past sa present.

better, get over the past muna before mu-enter og lain... kay sayang ra...

[Mr. BrokenHearted]

lisod bitaw kaayo makalimot sa love jud kaayo nimo... although moabot ang panahon nga mahigugma naka ug lain but imo lng siya giilad kay ang tinuod love japon nimo ang previous... masakitan lng nimo siya...

[andch81]

well for me... its the easy way out.. to love another.. but, it takes time.. and deep inside you know your cheating oneself bout the fact that you are still inlove with the past.. but it is very true indeed once you have started to love somebody new and slowly your affection and time would be transferred to the new love... but still, its just an easy way out.. you can just wait for the time that you would just be tired of being lonely and tired of waiting.. and maybe just maybe... without anyone's help you will be able to forget the past and can start a new relationship..and yes you can love 2 person actually.. but its just a diff. level always.. never that its the same or what..

[yam123]

no......don´t turn him into vulca seal hehhheehhe

[tenzor73p]

You dont need to love someone to forget your ex. Its not good if you date to forget.. you date to make new memories... hehe not necessarily forgetting the old ones. Just opening a new chapter in your life. But this is better done when you've at least moved on a little hekhek

[tJc]

before you love you have to learn to let go..

for it is only in letting go, that we give ourselves the chance to love again.

[emjee17]

wow. nice insights. at least naa pa sad diay pariha ninyu nga lahi ang tambag.

well it's not that i'm completely over with the previous one but on the other hand, i'm no longer in the point of being bitter. gamay nalang kuwang, okay na kaayo, ingon ana na nga stage. hehe..

naka ask ra ko ingon ani kay some of my friends thought nga bitter pa ko and worse, naa na daw koy bag-o, joke2 ra gud or mugna2 nila, which is a bit immature for my part. For the very reason that they really don't know the REAL me but la sad ko nag expect ug such treatment. hehe.

ang ako lang is, i'm not really the type of girl who would dive into a relationship if i still have excess baggage kay di lalim mapanakip butas. as much as possible mu hatag pud kog leeway sa akong kaugalingon and i hate to be misinterpreted nga easy or something like that.

mao ng i wanted to hear comments like these kay mga tao run kasagaran gugma2 man gyud, niya murag cliche na gani or if not murag puol ang topic para nako ba, i don't know why ingon ana ang feeling. kasuway ba ka ana? somehow ingon ana akong bati-on ka run bsta parte sa gugma2. hehe..