what can you say sa mga HomeWrecker sa family?

[chabby_whamby]

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i just want to hear sa side sa mga kabit na nganu mo enter mo og relationship na makaguba sa family sa guy?

i really don't understand whats your reason. money? pleasure?

help me understand u more para atleast i know...

just got my parents separated because of a kabit and now 6 years nami broken family... and i get jealous of a happy family walking and eating together...

[juleskiboi]

love can make the world go round jd, hahamakin lahat makuha ka lang...tinuod jd guro na...

it's not always money...but most cases ing-ana, esp if ang kabit kay bata pa kau para sa laki/babae...im talking about kabit pwede ma lalaki or ma babae ha...dili one sided lang...

i for one is a product of a broken family...my dad left my mom, me and my sis (i think 1992 or 1993)for another woman and sila jd nagdugay until namatay ako dad due to vehicular accident last oct 2005...ako dad kay walay stable na trabaho, and they have 5 children together...so i cant say that the other woman is after for my dad's money or whatever...i grew up with my mom so i really can't say that i miss him kay he wasnt there man gd when i was growing up...

but ever since that my dad left us, my mom never made us feel that kulang mi...she did almost everything she can to give us a decent(sometimes extravagant) lifestyle and napahuman mi niya ug skwela sa ako sis...

now, i have a family of my own and the best i can do is to make my marriage and my family work, whatever it takes, para walay regrets in the end IF ever dili happy ang ending, but i wont think about that...


to TS: everything happens for a reason...it would hurt you more cguro if your dad and mom are still together just for the sake of looking good to everyone's eyes, esp their children but reality is that cge lang sila ug away behind your back, to the point dili na magtapad ug sleep...dba mas lain man na?

what am trying to say is, don't totally put the blame on the homewrecker kay naguba imo family, your dad's got something to do with it too for letting this situation happen...open your mind lang pd...

i have a friend way back in college gani nga ing-ani ug set up iya mama and papa, still living in one house but iya papa sa sala na matulog, nya dili magtingog...he told me about it when i noticed ngano pirme iya papa naa sa sala matulog and dili mag tingog, labay2 lang(frequent visitor man ko sa ilaha sa una kay barkada man)...all i can say at that time is, PWEDE DIAY NG ING-ANA?..ka weird but naanad ra sila...

[Blackjellybean27]

my husband and i broke up because of a woman.
kato sya na girl i believe, bigaon lang jud...
i'm not sayin that because she wrecked my life.. i am concluding that based on facts gathered...

1) she has a boyfriend already and they were together for 3-4 when she met my husband...

2) she supposedly broke up with her boyfriend to be with my husband.

3) she got pregnant during the time when she and my husband were still together.. (my husband didnt know this... i found out from a common friend...) and the child wasn't my hubby's.. the father of the kid was her former boyfriend...

i don't know about other women, but i hope they did it because of love and not because of money or excitement... or biga...

for the record, i am not back together with my hubby..

[J.Abz]

life might be to harsh on us, but I believe every lessons life is giving you.. is making you more stronger as a person.... so that you can tackle back again whatever upcoming storms that might be coming your way...

Homewreckers or kabz.. are not for women alone.. I've heard guys (I don't know unsay tawag nimo sa mga laki mupatol ug mga matrona nga minyo sad) who are manwhores by themselves.. they prey to those senile women who hungers and thirst for emotional accompaniment only.

to Generalize.. these homewreckers are really going for PRACTICALITY sake lang jud.. They know that the partner they go with, have attachments already.. yet because of their being practical and not to mention MATERIALISTIC.. then they go with your husband, boyfriends, mommy/mama, or PAPA/DAD..

They know, they can't get or achieve what they really want by themselves.. so they 'USE' other people to get their needs and wants... SUCKERS I would say...

but then again, YOU can't blame these SUCKERS in life.. after all, it takes to tango as they say... You can blame your husband/bf/wife/Dad/Mom/mama.. for being succumbing to these suckers...

WALAY MUGAMIT kung walay MAGPAGAMIT... temptations as a way to really sneak on to you..

most if not.. these victims.. are either not really happy with their partners (in life) or they might NOT BE EMOTIONALLY MATURED enough to face life's temptation..

My dad told be before.. If your highly satisfied and contented with what you have NOW.. you wouldn't want to search it na from others... his family is his life's joy, pride and contentment. And he told me to always put GOD at the heart of your family. If naa kay kahadlok sa GINOO.. d ka matumpag sa bul-og sa temptasyon moabot sa imong kinabuhi.....

my own point lang...

[kishniquin]

juleskiboi
true gud nah imo point everything happens for a reason bitaw mka blame gud tah ani nila cympre kinsa man sad ganahan anang tao nah mka guba og pamilya diba samot pah naa nah mga anak pero mau lage dili rasad sila ang angay na basulon. pero usa lang ako na realize ang GABA DI GUD MAGSABA kay in end bisan dili pa cla mobalik sa ato mga kinabuhi ma realize rana nila nya ila sayop.....

[cheska_gabe]

We dont know they have there own reason why nabuhat, maybe naay kuwang na wla nahatag sa iya wife/husband or k-male/kfmale, dba? its not all about money but how u love n care for your partner maybe thats what happen so mao mabohat ky wla cla aning buhata!

[chabby_whamby]

WALAY MUGAMIT kung walay MAGPAGAMIT

love this phrase... pero dli na sila ma consensiya noh sa ilang gibuhat

sakto sad male or female na jud ang mga kabit karon... sauna laki ra ang mangabit pero karon both na....

[missingyouso]

well, perhaps naay mahatag ang 3rd party nga wala makuha sa husband or wife sa iyang current partner, so kung di na happy ang husband or wife unya di na gyud maagwanta, aw moadto gyud sya sa 3rd party. fact of life, mo-abot gyud ang time nga ma-change ang feelings, kung wala na gyuy makakupot sa husband or wife para ipadayon ang current relationship unya makakita sya lain nga na-love na niya, nganong mo-stay pa man sya?

murag ang question man ani karon kay morality. naa man gyud mga taw nga modern na ug panghunahuna, di pud ta ka-blame nila kay wa man pud ta kabalo unsa gyud ila na-experience

[lovelygirl]

kasagaran ang husband jud ang dapat basolon ky minyo na kaayo syang dako dapat maglikay sya sa temptation..

[joan624]

homewreckers reading this thread
ayaw mo ana oi
bad kaau
pangita nlng mo ug single gud
naa mn gyuy para inyo ba
ayaw namo pangilog anang taken, most especially those with their own families
pakauwaw raman na gud
bearing the scarlet letter = very bad and shameful
dili ra ninyo but sa inyong tibuok pamilya
and if tinuod ng gaba, maluoy nlng ko ninyo