Marriage for Convenience

[Lyle V.]

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Relationships fail. Even during Marriage and it hurts Life Size.. What do you guys say about getting married with someone just so you get to have a family? No Love(feelings) involved, just plainly an agreement to be together, have children and live practically happy. Is this possible?

[lovelygirl]

mao sad na akong plano bya..naka schedule na unta ang kasal namu sa akong bf miskan d nku sya love ky ganahan n ko mag minyo ug magka anak..and besides ge kpoy na ko mag inosara ky wala na koy parents..wala pa jud koy mga igsuon..pero mahadlok ko magmahay in the end..karun na koy meet na guy dre sa workplace murag its too late na ky naa nku uyab..maglisod nku buwag bah..mao d sah jud ka magpa dalos dalos ug decide anang ka minyoon..

ge cancel nku among kasal ...next year nalang ky dili pa ko sure nya... although buotan kaayo sya..love kau ko nya..is that enough?

[jutzy]

disagree ko ana.. coz in the long run kung mka kita ka sa perfect someone magmahay nya ka pareha ni lovelygirl..

[Lyle V.]

but that perfect someone thing per my experience ba kay moment lang na..after sometime..so far, its like cycle for me..gubot kaayo..I think this is a choice for people like me nga wa juy swerte sa gugma..

[Lyle V.]

mao sad na akong plano bya..naka schedule na unta ang kasal namu sa akong bf miskan d nku sya love ky ganahan n ko mag minyo ug magka anak..and besides ge kpoy na ko mag inosara ky wala na koy parents..wala pa jud koy mga igsuon..pero mahadlok ko magmahay in the end..karun na koy meet na guy dre sa workplace murag its too late na ky naa nku uyab..maglisod nku buwag bah..mao d sah jud ka magpa dalos dalos ug decide anang ka minyoon..

ge cancel nku among kasal ...next year nalang ky dili pa ko sure nya... although buotan kaayo sya..love kau ko nya..is that enough?

I think d ma magmahay once you will already have your kids..and eventually, if youre mature, whats important really is to have kids and a partner nga uban nimo then you both work for your careers..then ang inyo love ma focus sa inyo kids..I think, you will eventually become bestfriends..and its the best state of Marriage for me..

[Lyle V.]

btw available diay ko for negotiation LOL

[jLuspoc]

Relationships fail. Even during Marriage and it hurts Life Size.. What do you guys say about getting married with someone just so you get to have a family? No Love(feelings) involved, just plainly an agreement to be together, have children and live practically happy. Is this possible?

unsa ni "buya" or Muslim tradition?

para nako, LISUD kaau. matud pa sa akong mama... d na bali ug matiguwang dalaga xa kaysa mgpakasal sa taw nga wa daw xa nahigugma. sugot amo mama b4 nga gkulata xa sa akong lola kay pugson ug paminyo sa laki nga wai gus2 akong ermat. salamat nalang kay nka realize akong lola nga sayop iyang gbuhat.

naa ra na sa tagtungod kong mo sugot nalang mo or dili jud. think the pros and cons kung tig minyo mos taw nga wala jud mo feelings ni katiting.

[miss tapya]

depende man cguro na sa tao. what if in the long run, magkasinabot ra.... case to case basis lang noon....

[Peace]

hmmm. . .
mag-minyo then pray that love will come later? what if it won't? unsaon naman lang ang mga kidz?

marriage is a leap-of-faith bitaw, mahal na ayo ang annulment ron ingon sila.
mao na nga dapat huna-hunaa gyud ug maayo tawn

[Lyle V.]

depende man cguro na sa tao. what if in the long run, magkasinabot ra.... case to case basis lang noon....

murag case to case jed..kinahnglan jud siyag intelligent planning..d sad nuon basta basta..you need to look ahead to start good..