>>>>None of us have a "perfect" past. The fact is that we live in a sinful world. However, problems arise when we see life from an "UNFAIR" perspective. When we see ourselves as victims, we become caught in our circumstance whether it be a past or present experience. Our natural response to negative situations is anger. Of course, we have to direct anger toward someone or something. If we direct anger toward others, then offenses follow. If we direct it toward ourselves, then we enslave ourselves. Guilt often follows the anger. Then depression follows the guilt. We feel bad; therefore, we try to find things to compensate for the bad feelings. Addictions often arise at this point. Addictions are things in which we bury ourselves, often to cover negative feelings that arise out of thought of feeling that life is unfair. <<<
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