is it okay not to talk to your dad for so long?

[maddox_pitt]

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..c0z he's done something wrong over and over again and you just got fed up with everything mao wala naka nitagad niya?

i feel like a bad daughter for doing this, but every time i'm reminded of what he's done to us maglagot q..

[dice14]

if ako pangutanon sis kung about sa akong papa./... ok ra guro kay wa pa jud ko ka istorya sa akong papa..nyhahahaha

btw... talk to him and forgve him maybe his sorry.. if iya jpn buhaton forgive jpn if mangayo ug lain chance... tagai.. if maka sala npod tagai npod...

if ever ako ng papa ako jud na pasayluon kay we dont know wen ta kwaun sa ginoo.. maybe if ready nka na ma pasaylo xa wla na nuon xa... godbless...

[MisterSuave]

mao ni akong gi mahayan.. karon na ko nagmahay na na wala na akong father..

[jLuspoc]

swerte mo kay naa mo papa. malas namong wa na kita ug papa ky sau namatay.

kamong naa pai mga ginikanan, Mahala jud ug pangga-a cla ninyo para ug mawala man gani cla dli mo magmahay sa inyong kaugalingun nga sa naa pa cla inyong gpakita sa ila nga mahal nnyo cla.

[maddox_pitt]

tnx...haiz* your reps makes me feel all the more guilty.... bitaw sad...mao say akong gihunahuna... hahaiz* pero di naman q kasabot sa ko papa uy.... ambot lang... hahaiz** i tried to take everything gikan pa sa una, pero gikapoi naman q ana niya... unsa man sad na xa oi... hahaiz i used to be a daddy's girl... i thought he really was my childhood hero...pero as i grew up and saw the real him, ambot lang... lagot q... hahaiz* pero sakto sad mo tanan... i want to talk to him, but he's always busy...i only get to see him on vacations, and on vacations i only get to see him in the evening, that is kung late nako kaayo matulog... haiz..i dont know how we can patch things up...
lately though, (like less than a wk) murag gabag-o naman sad siya gamay...gamay lang...murag pilit sad... sa0nz..and that was only after i gave him a solicitation letter for my finances (weird?it may sound absurd, pero i gave him one jud...long story...really...)

[WEI?]

Dah! porbida.....hahaha!
ako maglibog jud ko sa batasan sa akong papa...
bahala siya ui..

-WEI?

[emjee17]

Sis, just pray to God. Talk to Him about what you've been going through. Seek guidance on this matter.

For me, it's not okay to ignore your dad. After all, he is still you PAPA.
God bless you!

[maddox_pitt]

Sis, just pray to God. Talk to Him about what you've been going through. Seek guidance on this matter.

For me, it's not okay to ignore your dad. After all, he is still you PAPA.
God bless you!

tnx sis... yeah i know, he's still my dad... i love my dad...but there are just a lot of things that we argue about... hahaiz*** kung pwede lang erase nako tanan na bad memories oi para mabalik sa una, katong bata pako... maayo unta.. haiz** i miss my dad, and he'll be celebrating his birthday on sunday..


@wei: unsaon, mayta oi makaana lang q na "bahala siya oi"....pero i still get affected man despite the fact that we are not on speaking terms...

[shey0811]

I think it is still best that you talk with your dad...Just don't ignore him...The more you ignore him, the more ma.overemphasize ang iyang gbuhat sa imong mind...Let go of the angst. It's not doing good for you...If forgiving is difficult for him at present, over time if will no longer be...God bless you!

[emjee17]

tnx sis... yeah i know, he's still my dad... i love my dad...but there are just a lot of things that we argue about... hahaiz*** kung pwede lang erase nako tanan na bad memories oi para mabalik sa una, katong bata pako... maayo unta.. haiz** i miss my dad, and he'll be celebrating his birthday on sunday..

His bday is a great opportunity for you to reconcile with him. At least greet him, hug him and say sorry for ignoring him. For sure, maantig na imu dad and hopefully he'll change.