A re-post:
10. She's independent
No one wants a girlfriend they have to baby-sit. Once in a while -- like if
she's had a rough day at work -- it's great to be her shoulder to cry on. But
if she can't seem to function without you and is constantly after you, she
will eventually make you feel like you're suffocating, which is a surefire
way to get you running for the nearest exit. On the other hand, if she has
her very own personality and opinions; can stand on her own two feet, both
financially and emotionally; and is able to enjoy time away from you (while
still missing you, of course) then she must be a great girlfriend.
9. She's intelligent
I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the ***** routine gets real old,
real fast. A woman who can meet you at an intellectual level is a total
turn-on. Instead of being the one in total control, you'll find yourself
trying to figure out what’s really going on in that brain of hers.
An intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes --
she won't let you get bored of her. Besides, it's nice to have something to
talk about when you’re not, er, otherwise occupied.
8. She's sexual
A great girlfriend has to be sexually compatible with you. For instance, if
you're the hardcore leather type and she's the dainty lingerie type, well,
that could be a problem. The two of you have to be on the same page -- or she
at least has to be willing to expand her sexual horizons from time to time.
7. She's beautiful
I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. A great
girlfriend will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself. She
should always look her best and be well put together.
6. She respects you
This is a biggie. Your woman must respect you. This means that she listens to
you, even if she doesn't necessarily agree with what you're saying. And, of
course, she never tries to demean or belittle you in any way, shape, or
form.
5. She lets you be a man
Do not -- I repeat -- do not get involved with a woman who tries to get you to
eat cottage cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up poker
night with the guys. You will end up resenting her more than you can imagine.
A good girlfriend lets you be a guy in all your glory, poker night and all.
If she's a great girlfriend, she'll even bring you and your buddies a couple
of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches.
She has to understand that men and women are different and should allow you to
be yourself. Just like you wouldn't deprive her of going shopping with her
best girlfriend, she shouldn't expect you to give up the guys for her.
4. She's nagless
There is nothing worse than a nag! A great girlfriend knows this and chooses
her battles wisely. She knows when to speak-up and when to let it slide. You
don't want a girlfriend who will give you the heights of hell for leaving a
couple of dishes in the sink occasionally.
However, if you live together and you stay out all night without calling her,
and she lets you have it, then you're setting yourself up for disaster. This
is a situation that nobody would let slide -- not even a great girlfriend.
3. She gets along with friends & family
A great girlfriend will not only help your mom in the kitchen, listen to your
dad's stories, and hang out with your friends, she will enjoy it. She'll make
a real effort to get to know and love the most important people in your life.
And she won't try to get you to ditch your best buds.
She'll actually empathize with your brother's getting dumped and suggest that
you guys take him out to cheer him up. Not only that, but your friends won't
roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she'll be joining you guys
when she gets off work (yes, women like this do exist).
2. She loves you
If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you
pretend or try to be sometimes, you should definitely hang on to her. A woman
who doesn't try to change you is hard to find. Of course, everyone has their
slightly annoying habits that their mate has to contend with, but if she
really loves you, she will be able to cope with these.
Another way to know if she really loves you is by observing the way she looks
at you and treats you on an everyday basis. If the sight of you doesn't seem
to faze her either way, and she doesn't really seem to care about what you
have to say, she's either playing very hard to get, or sees you as just some
guy. But if a surprise visit or phone call from you makes her light up,
there's no denying that she loves you.
1. She makes you want to be a better man
Stop making that face... Any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell
you that she makes him want to be a better man. She doesn't have to say or do
anything; it just is that way. If you suddenly feel bad about how you treated
your sister or find yourself trying to get your finances in order, you might
want to think about your motivation for doing so. It could be love.
So, if this list seems to describe your current flame, you, my friend, are
styling. In fact, you are probably the envy of all of your friends, even if
they tease you for losing your status as "king player."
However, if the woman you are dating is more like the polar opposite, then I
don't think that getting serious with her would be in your best interest --
but you knew that already, didn't you?
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...what can you say about this guys? hihihih
Top 10 Signs that she's a girlfriend to Keep!
"People who love to eat are always the BEST people."
up pra sa mga gf's to keep. 
Originally Posted by skinnygenes
nice..very nice read.
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