HELP In love with Best Friend, then Boyfriend proposes

[esotericlove]

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istoryans,
what can you advise about this situation:
The girl is inlove with her best friend but the man is not inlove with her. THe girl was desperate and hurt til he tried to talk to other guys and she meet someone whos now her bf and the problem is the girl is still inlove with her best friend and her bf now proposed a marriage.

unsa man kaha angay buhaton ani na girl..

[desperada]

its best if you love and be loved..but if you are just the one who is inlove with that bestfriend of yours..learn to start to forget that feeling..let it go of that feeling for your bestfriend..basin ug pang bestfriend ra jud cya nimo not as lover..about that guy nga ning proposed if u think u deserve him go for it..mas nindot ning gihigugma ta..kaysa kita lang permi ang nahigugma unya dili ta higugmaon ug balik....

[annerhexian]

istoryans,
what can you advise about this situation:
The girl is inlove with her best friend but the man is not inlove with her. THe girl was desperate and hurt til he tried to talk to other guys and she meet someone whos now her bf and the problem is the girl is still inlove with her best friend and her bf now proposed a marriage.

unsa man kaha angay buhaton ani na girl..

hmmm... this is quiet hard coz marriage is already involved in the situation.

Let me give u my POV.

Emotionally...

Your friend is so in love with her best friend and yet its a one sided feeling ONLY.
Let me ask u?
Is ur friend and her friend talk about this feeling towards the guy na nahan cea and yet na ni ana jud ang iya bestfriend na - friendship level ray mahatag?? and Desperate for the feelings coz of the love never repocreate to the one that must be giveN?

is the bestfriend worthy for that feelings?
desperations, pain, hurt feelings from rejection - Will it be any good na mo let go cea bit by bit before cea mo jump to another relationship? but then.. things already been done..


so Ur friend is hunted by the "unrequited feelings" from ur bestfriend and a "guy" who propose marriage to it.

why is ur friend is still at restless? Simple - ur friend is still have this kind of "hoping" and the "what if" issues to the best friend's feelings? but i hope its not obsession neither a misery feelings that she keep holding on..coz thats another story na jud..

Shes not contented and all along na nakig relasyon sya sa iya bf, nag duhaduha cea..

Practically, its better someone loves u than u love someone else more than ur self..coz thats the feeling of security,......
but then, the mystery of being in love is not measured by logics neither by practically.. it is measured only on what the heart wanted and hope is not a disillusioned of wanted lang jud..


**hope i can help u with my tots***

[esotericlove]

its best if you love and be loved..but if you are just the one who is inlove with that bestfriend of yours..learn to start to forget that feeling..let it go of that feeling for your bestfriend..basin ug pang bestfriend ra jud cya nimo not as lover..about that guy nga ning proposed if u think u deserve him go for it..mas nindot ning gihigugma ta..kaysa kita lang permi ang nahigugma unya dili ta higugmaon ug balik....

mao na sister.. may point jud ka aning mas maayo nang gi love ka kay sa ikaw ang gi love maski ako mao ni ako gusto kay lisod kung kita ra ga love.. agree ko nimo sister.. Peru OT sa ko sis, guapa ayo ka dri ba sa imo avatar hehehe..

[esotericlove]

hmmm... this is quiet hard coz marriage is already involved in the situation.

Let me give u my POV.

Emotionally...

Your friend is so in love with her best friend and yet its a one sided feeling ONLY.
Let me ask u?
Is ur friend and her friend talk about this feeling towards the guy na nahan cea and yet na ni ana jud ang iya bestfriend na - friendship level ray mahatag?? and Desperate for the feelings coz of the love never repocreate to the one that must be giveN?

is the bestfriend worthy for that feelings?
desperations, pain, hurt feelings from rejection - Will it be any good na mo let go cea bit by bit before cea mo jump to another relationship? but then.. things already been done..


so Ur friend is hunted by the "unrequited feelings" from ur bestfriend and a "guy" who propose marriage to it.

why is ur friend is still at restless? Simple - ur friend is still have this kind of "hoping" and the "what if" issues to the best friend's feelings? but i hope its not obsession neither a misery feelings that she keep holding on..coz thats another story na jud..

Shes not contented and all along na nakig relasyon sya sa iya bf, nag duhaduha cea..

Practically, its better someone loves u than u love someone else more than ur self..coz thats the feeling of security,......
but then, the mystery of being in love is not measured by logics neither by practically.. it is measured only on what the heart wanted and hope is not a disillusioned of wanted lang jud..


**hope i can help u with my tots***

u know what sis, i been reading ur mga advises even sa other thread nahan ko nimo mu advise hehehe.. bitaw. tama ka the girl is still hoping for something maski naka balo na sya na di sya love sa iya best friend.. peru bag o paman lang gud sila ani iya gf peru super love kayo sya ani thats why ni proposed dayon..dapat jud ani sa girl mo move on na ang forget iya best friend, tama jud si sis desperada.. thanks ayo sister ha..naka help jud imo comment..

[desperada]

mao na sister.. may point jud ka aning mas maayo nang gi love ka kay sa ikaw ang gi love maski ako mao ni ako gusto kay lisod kung kita ra ga love.. agree ko nimo sister.. Peru OT sa ko sis, guapa ayo ka dri ba sa imo avatar hehehe..

OT:heheh BEERGIN pko ani nga pic sis hehehe joke

[WEI?]

akong opinion ana ate sah kay...

Move on nalang jud! thats the best way and its the right way. If your best friend truly loves you then why did he marry someone?!

Its better to let go of him na ate....i know its very hard but try your best! I know you can do it!!

-WEI?

[chinody]

dapat di nia i accept ang proposal.. then iyahang prangkahan ang iyahang bestfriend. bsan pa masakitan siya kai dli ganahan niya. mao man jud nang love. if love jud nia dapat iyaha palipayon ang iyahang bestfriend. bsan pa ang pasabot ani na magpalayo siya sa iyahang bestfriend.

[mojojo]

ohh my... kung sa facebook pa. its complicated na kaayo ni.. id like to read moe suggestios to the prolem please..

[esotericlove]

akong opinion ana ate sah kay...

Move on nalang jud! thats the best way and its the right way. If your best friend truly loves you then why did he marry someone?!

Its better to let go of him na ate....i know its very hard but try your best! I know you can do it!!

-WEI?

WEi? dili ni akoa kaw ron.. sa ako friend.. hehehhe nya ang girl ang nag ask ani bale then ang iya gi love iya best friend then iya best friend di sya ani love peru ang girl love nya ang best friend nya. kay na desperate ang girl nangita ug lain na friend and mao to naa sya gisugot na naging bf nya and ga proposed ug marriage ang problem nya karon kya na unfair ang girl kay di ba mura lang sya ngita ug lain then niabot ni nga man peru ang iya jud gi love ang iya best friend na di sya love.. hahays kalooy.. hehhehe.. ang problem kay tininood jud ang marriage proposal and naka yes pod sya.. mao na wei? hehehe kay murag ako imo gipasabot ang girl..hahahhaha