[BREAKING UP] Sensitivity and Style ^_^

[cutiecules]

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1. Pick an appropriate place. The less public, the better. Remember, ending a relationship is a humbling experience. Don’t do it in a place where the person on the receiving end is going to feel more vulnerable than necessary; however, beware of an overly remote situation in case your ex loses control and resorts to violence.
2. Choose the right time. Avoid holidays and special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries at all costs. Do you really want your ex remembering your insensitivity every time that day rolls around?
3. Do it in person. If the relationship is relatively new, maybe you can get away breaking up over the phone. But come on, if you’ve been out on more than a handful of dates, isn’t that kind of harsh?
4. Be honest but sensitive. No one likes to get dumped. But we at least appreciate the truth when it’s over. Unless, of course, the truth is you’ve stopped finding him/her attractive, you’ve met someone better, or that you’re just plain bored with the relationship.
5. Keep your emotions in check. Don’t seem too happy about the breakup: you’ll come off as mean-spirited. Just be kind, caring, and considerate.
6. Don’t react. Some people don’t handle rejection well. Some people yell, scream, or cry. But it doesn’t mean you should react to their meltdown. Remember, rejection is tough. You’ve already got the upper hand by being the dumper. Let the dumpee behave ridiculously if they choose to. And if their tantrum escalates, get the heck out of there! Don’t wait around for the aftermath!

dunno if u have that style hehehee

[beyee]

This is how he did it...

1. Pick an appropriate place. -- he was in his haus while i was in my room...
2. Choose the right time. -- he chose a proper time... twas on our monthsary when he broke up with me...
3. Do it in person. -- he chose a convenient way of breaking the news... he did it on the phone...
4. Be honest but sensitive. -- his reason? he wants to focus on his work but only to find out he was playing sweet music with his bestfriend at work.
5. Keep your emotions in check. -- yes he was caring and all that he took consideration as to where and how he broke the news to me with no tell-tale signs that he would.
6. Don’t react. -- lucky for him that i was too composed on the other end of the line... who would go hysterical if someone jumps the gun on you without you having the slightest idea that you guys have a prob?

dunno if you guys like his style... with all the things i've mentioned, i can truly say he was sensitive and did it in style...

[inna-iks]

Dili sad ka tantong sarcastic beyee. Hahahaha. ;] Lord, please. I hope I won't go through any break ups na. Gnhn ko xa na.

[WEI?]

Hahaha! wla koy problema ani..hahaha! wla koy uyab..hehehe!!!
Pohon lang kung maka-uyab nako..hehehe!!

-WEI?

[treize]

1. Pick an appropriate place. Inside a MOTEL
2. Choose the right time. 12 Midnight After the hot session
3. Do it in person. Of course, inside the motel after the hot session
4. Be honest but sensitive. IT'S being honest after the hot session again.
5. Keep your emotions in check. It's probably intact after the very hot session again..
6. Don’t react. Yeah sure you dont have to react after your smoking hot session with your soon to be ex-partner...

wahehehe