How do you overcome bitterness?

[anjerika]

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at one point in our life, ma bitter man jud ta. for example, you missed a qualification or goal and gisayangan kaayo ka, or naguba imong relationship with friends/family, nahagbong ka sa school tungod kay bias imong teacher, gi fire ka sa imong boss for a personal way klaro reason, or nagbuwag mo sa imong uyab na love kaayo nimo or naa ka ganahan na tawo but just couldn't get the person for yourself.


wa man siguro tawo na automatic mka recover seconds after the incident. muagi paman tag ka guol. so what actions do you do para ka mka overcome sa imong bitterness?


state:


1. the incident itself
2. what you did to heal yourself and get away with it



bira istoryans!

[RainDrizzle07]

Time raman to akoa..

And I talked to God. for everything (coz we all, we can lie to everyone except him)

then I go to my LoLo's grave and pour my heart out, like literally magyawyaw okz.. (kevz sa mga passer's by na makadungog ^_^)

in Time I was able to move on, learned my lessons, bow to never commit the same stupid mistake.

As of the opportunities that I regretted never getting kay I talk to myself "internally" Like mo ingon na...

Probably its not my time yet.. or God has a better plan for me that's why he did not let me get it.. ^_^

[PerfectPitch]

HUbog hubog out of town dayon hahahaha actually time will heal man gud bisan asa na corner, imo lng diha unsa-on pag handle sa situation.

[treize]

tagay ra na inig human wagtang na, og naa gani gihapon inig ugma aw tagay lang gihapon hangtod mawagtang ra na... hehehe..

[RainDrizzle07]

HUbog hubog out of town dayon hahahaha actually time will heal man gud bisan asa na corner, imo lng diha unsa-on pag handle sa situation.

Dha masulod ang 10% of Life is made up of what happens to you, 90% of Life is made up of how you react to what happens to you ^_^

[PerfectPitch]

Dha masulod ang 10% of Life is made up of what happens to you, 90% of Life is made up of how you react to what happens to you ^_^

Amen brad amen

[miss tapya]

i lift up my bitterness to GOD.......

[Blackjellybean27]

hmmmm, me i chose not to face that problem at that time.
it was hard dealing with that thing face to face.
so i chose to run away. while away, bitter gihapon ko.
but then something better came along and i guess that's how
i was able to get over it.
for some people, time is really not gonna heal. but if something that's
equally good, or even better comes along then i guess thats how
you overcome that bitterness.

[esotericlove]

Just find ways to be happy, don't think na of the things that will make you bitter. THink of happy and nice things.. Peru ako sis, before na nako mabuhat ako sa baslan ako gikalagotan pra makamata sya unsa iya sala nko.. after that wala na forget kna and move on.. focus ko other things. pag mahuna hunaan pwede storyahan peru human wla na..

[redhot777]

By doing things that would help yourself stress out emotional pains, sadness, insecurities. etc

hang out with friends
playing online games
talk to someone about life..
meditate
cry
Pray
drinking beer is not good it'll only make things worse..

or perhaps just grab your ipod and walk it off. music also helps stress out bad emotions, but just a little.

or just accept what happened.. Life is sometimes boring without problems..

Don't expect too much about life. It will only slow you down and hurt you.
hope for the best but expect the worst.. life is so unpredictable
trust to God and pray always
Don't give up or lose hope..

just accept that things that will come. But be happy and be contented of what God gave you.
and thats your life.. Don't think about problems. problems has a solutions no matter how small or big it is.

Enjoy being alive, Enjoy being with the ones you love. specially ur family.
live your life to the fullest.