kinda scary, but i have a new friend which happens to have a break up 4months ago with his gf..and kinda i like him coz we're some kinda have similarities and lots of common interest..but i don't know how to discover that he likes me as a friend or more than a friend rather than using me to get over from his past..well he's telling me that he's over but i still want to know how..
PLS HELP..!!!
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11-23-2009, 11:35 PM #1Junior Member
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how will u know that a guy is not using u but rather he likes u already
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11-24-2009, 04:40 AM #2C.I.A.
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hmmm...hang out with him often then pasakay dayun ug istorya arun makita ang katag LOL
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11-24-2009, 09:36 AM #3Elite Member
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Krekiks!!!! 100% jud ko mo agree aning butanga wahihi
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hmmm...hang out with him often then pasakay dayun ug istorya arun makita ang katag LOL
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11-24-2009, 10:20 AM #4You can ask him directly and be very frank to him. That's the only sure way na you'll know jud if he's being true to you or he's just using you. You can see it naman sad, it's obvious if gihimo ra kang panakip butas and bantayi iyang actions if maka-feel ka nga ganahan pa xa sa iyang X, trust your instincts. Labi na if grabe na kaobvious but if persistent ang guy and if mg-cge jud xag insist and convince nmu that he's over his X. Go. Give him a chance, luoy man sad. ;] Originally Posted by mevonmitch
kinda scary, but i have a new friend which happens to have a break up 4months ago with his gf..and kinda i like him coz we're some kinda have similarities and lots of common interest..but i don't know how to discover that he likes me as a friend or more than a friend rather than using me to get over from his past..well he's telling me that he's over but i still want to know how..
PLS HELP..!!!
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11-24-2009, 11:39 AM #5Senior Member
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better be just the friend for now.. than dive to the unknown water.. ^_^
as you don;t know how deep or how shallow that water be....
don't rush things... better you are the person's shock observer than the one he will used for rebound.. ^_^
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kani ang sakto Originally Posted by RainDrizzle07
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11-24-2009, 12:22 PM #7Elite Member
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you kinda back off a little to let him realize that you don't want him to be just your friend. Originally Posted by mevonmitch
kinda scary, but i have a new friend which happens to have a break up 4months ago with his gf..and kinda i like him coz we're some kinda have similarities and lots of common interest..but i don't know how to discover that he likes me as a friend or more than a friend rather than using me to get over from his past..well he's telling me that he's over but i still want to know how..
PLS HELP..!!!
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11-24-2009, 12:30 PM #8Senior Member
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actually, lisud jud n sis ug unsaon nimo pagkahibaw his true intentions. there's bothing more appropriate na solution guro ani sis, kundi just hang-out with him AS A FRIEND, better yet dnt assume or expect anything pa. and everytime magkuyog mo, always be on the look out kung unsa iyaha mga actions if tarung ba or binnuang lang... ayaw lang pod palabi ka involve kay basi u'll end up falling inlove with him too early unya g gamit ra diay ka ug untulanan para sya mahuwasan.
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11-24-2009, 12:47 PM #9Elite Member
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How to discover? IpaFeel sa iya ang imo feelings for him. Not straightforward though, kinda more or less like "pasumbingay" kind. Guys have the knack to respond to this. (IMHO though) Originally Posted by mevonmitch
kinda scary, but i have a new friend which happens to have a break up 4months ago with his gf..and kinda i like him coz we're some kinda have similarities and lots of common interest..but i don't know how to discover that he likes me as a friend or more than a friend rather than using me to get over from his past..well he's telling me that he's over but i still want to know how..
PLS HELP..!!!
Advice: IMO, I think it is better to wait. I mean, let him tell you about his feelings. Let him get to his rhythm. You might be expecting gud if magdali2x ka. and if it won't turn out as you've expected, you'll get hurt.
For now, I think it is wise if you'll stay as good friend to him, without thinking of something in return. It is hard, but it can be done.
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not now ms let him do the 1st move... kay basn ikaw ra ang ma sakitan... don't force it... Originally Posted by mevonmitch
kinda scary, but i have a new friend which happens to have a break up 4months ago with his gf..and kinda i like him coz we're some kinda have similarities and lots of common interest..but i don't know how to discover that he likes me as a friend or more than a friend rather than using me to get over from his past..well he's telling me that he's over but i still want to know how..
PLS HELP..!!!
be there for him as a friend sa... kay mo tug an ra bitaw na cya nmo if ganahan cya nmo...
basn sakyan2x ra sad ka ana nya para makalimtan nya ang iya ex...Last edited by carbrill; 11-24-2009 at 04:05 PM.
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