Love hurts

[Inevitable Pain]

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what if.....

you have this enthusiastic girlfriend, well. formerly enthusiastic to be precise...

then..

now she isnt, as enthusiastic as she seemed.

she tries to break up with you, what or how would you feel?

during the early relationship, she gets pissed off when you reply late to her texts,
now, she doesnt reply as soon as she can.

and she sleeps on you, and it seems that she doesnt give a damn about your relationship.

your friends tell you that you have given your best and you did your part, but you love her.

and then i guess, all this would just lead to pain, hurt, and sadness..


so, what can you guys recommend?

i mean, if you were in my case, what would you do?


Thanks to everyone who would answer

[beyee]

it's not healthy to stay for the wrong reasons or simply waiting who's gonna bail out first... why clinging on something that isn't there anymore? prolly the hurt u get out of ur relationship has become ur comfort zone already that's why you rather stay than move on...

it's your call and never ur girl's... and don't say it's the guy's thing not to break up with ur gfs coz for me that's totally bull... pardon for my french

[Inevitable Pain]

it's not healthy to stay for the wrong reasons or simply waiting who's gonna bail out first... why clinging on something that isn't there anymore? prolly the hurt u get out of ur relationship has become ur comfort zone already that's why you rather stay than move on...

it's your call and never ur girl's... and don't say it's the guy's thing not to break up with ur gfs coz for me that's totally bull... pardon for my french

thanks sis for answering me.

people say i should end this, and quick. and you are right, it isn't healthy.

but i fear the fact that i am really inlove with her and that maybe, just maybe, my perception with love will totally be altered, and changed to a negative direction upon breaking up.

and it's not GUY's THING

it's my thing, that's what i promised myself


thanks for the advice sis

[beyee]

i only reacted to ur posts as u claimed ur no longer happy... how about this.. instead of dwelling too much on that emotion, do something about... rekindle what you had before with her like woo her again and see how it goes... if that unhappiness still continues then bro, u have to do something.. u guys should talk this out,,,

ur most welcome bro

[Inevitable Pain]

so is a cool off the thing to do?

i mean. i see her happy with anyone else but me, and that hurts me.

she smiles when she is with someone else, but she frowns when she is with me.

i hate that fact. and it hurts me.

sis, how would i know if a girl doesnt love a guy anymore?

that's how i feel sis.


much thanks to you sis

[PipayNove]

yeah move on..


you did your part,she did her part too. . wat happend is unfavorable to u.. wake up,ask urclf wat shud b d nxt step 2 b done?

dnt stick 2 sam1 hu's no longr intrsted wid wid ur cycle..

Pray and listen...

you deserve someone who will love u more than on wat u xpectd


cheer up!

[Inevitable Pain]

yeah move on..


you did your part,she did her part too. . wat happend is unfavorable to u.. wake up,ask urclf wat shud b d nxt step 2 b done?

dnt stick 2 sam1 hu's no longr intrsted wid wid ur cycle..

Pray and listen...

you deserve someone who will love u more than on wat u xpectd


cheer up!

thanks sis. i will try to move on and leave this love behind. i know, we loved our best. thanks sis.

suwayan jd nako. pero i shall try something first, i shall try it one last time. i shall test if our relationship is still worth saving. i really love her. i cant change that fact

[beyee]

cool off is sugarcoating the word break-up..personally it's just bull to say "let's cool things off muna..."

.. u have to know what you really want since u know already she's no longer happy as well... den do something about.. move on and no more turning back...

[Mjwolf]

just try to make her happy bro for one last time lang... Bring her a bouquet of flowers and chocolates.. try to impress her.. para di ka magmahay sa imong gibuhat.. well at least if dili japun cya.. dats the time nga magmove on naka.. at least ni try ka bro for the last time

[treize]

just play the game she's playing until you're strong enough to let go. simple!