GIRLS please read.. (open for GUYZ pd)

[namaligya]

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if the situation is this:
first month nga kami na.. in short i cheated on HER.. i had another relatinship pro its just a day relationship.. ako lng g take advantage ang pag ka ganahan sa girl nko.. i know its just a day pro damn its considered cheating ryt? d second one is pag november 3.. nag txt mi sa akong Ex-girlfriend.. and tungod sa akong pag ka amaw ug pag ka hubog.. nakig balik ko niya.. (FYI: my Ex-girlfrnd and d grl nga ako g cheatan pag 1st month is not the same person).. so here it comes.. ako padayonon.. i didnt know nga pag ka 2months namo ato she already knew d bogo move i did kato naa ko oder relationship for a day.. dats y dry ra kaayo iyang pag treat nko.. in short.. in this present time.. khbw pd cya about anang nov.3 thngy.. and now.. ako pa ang naki pag buwag..

BECAUSE.. nag selos ko kay mag cge ghpon cya txt iya Ex-boyfriend and ala ko salig sa guy.. mahadlok ko nga naa spark ma kita and mag balik cla.. pro mo ingn jd cya tanan nahitabo even though khbw cya masuko ko.. dat s GUDNEWS about it..

and it turned out nga ako rpd ang nakipag balik.. she told me she stil loves me in behalf sa tanan nko g buhat niya..

now my question for you is:
1.should i continue and make bawi sa tanan nko na buhat.. coz i realy LOVE her nahh..
2.or should i STOP making up to her and set her FREE?

this questions came to my mind now kay naglibog njd ko..

YOUR help would be a great persuation for my next MOVE...

TNX!!

T.T super sad dis tym!!

[johnmarwel]

you know bro... sorry to tell you nga na bad karma naka sa imo nabuhat... as they say, bad gani imo gibuhat bad sad ang balik ana... Hope d na nimo buhaton ug balik or just think twice before making such foolish moves...

Kung mamakak lang gani ka ug balik nya, set her free nalang coz she doesn't deserve to be cheated and hurt.... Cheating is not a solution but it will make things more worse... If you really love her then tell her everything she deserve to know and face ang unsa gani ang result ana... And one thing.. If you really love her, then y man nabuhat to nimo? kung love jud nimo cya d ta jud ka makacheat nya kai dako man ka ug respeto sa inyo relationship... that's what love is.. respecting and loving each other... for me lang ha... ehehhehe..

[Blackjellybean27]

I think she is better off without you

[babypaupau]

ka harsh pud sa mga taw oi as if sila dili capable mubuhat ana. errr....

but i want to make it clear na im not condoning what you did because IT IS wrong. now the question is, unsa man jud imong gusto buhaton? do you still want to stay in the relationship or no? if you do, you dont have to keep making up for what you did. if you were really sincere about your apology and she already forgave you, that's it. let it go. end of story. move on and make it right this time by not cheating. if you keep on making up for what you did, eventually it will take its toll on you and you will only end up doing the same mistakes over and over again. it is a manifestation na ikaw mismo wala ka get over sa imong gbuhat and you should learn to forgive yourself as well because its only in forgiveness that you will find peace.

on the other hand, if you think you'd only end up sleeping with other girls then its better if you just let her go. she does deserve somebody better and you also deserve to be happy. if you cant be faithful to her then DONT give her reasons to believe that you are. if you still want to sleep around then be man enough to stand by your choice. dont hide it with pseudo relationships and hurt the person who loves you. she doesn't deserve it.

before the relationship gets toxic... you should decide.

[monrose29]

undanga nalang na bro.. og pag hinulsol sa imong sala...sakita ra ba anang ma baslan ka.. hehehe...

[jeff_bonz59]

murag nag play around ra man ka always bro.. how sure are you nga if makigbalik ka sa imong GF karon, you would never ever entertain the thoughts of cheating again with her?? once bitten, twice shy na baya...

Sa ako lang tingali bai no, your really not serious with her jud. Plain and simple. If serious paka.. you wouldnt give her the things you did.. murag lingaw lingaw lang na imoha..

Better examine your love for a person kaha.. What and why do you love a girl? for the sake of having a gf lang? or for a more meaningful reason pa jud...

Lisod magduwa duwa ug tao bro.. the payment that it gets back on you is ten times what you did to that person...

just my take..

[bleed214]

i stopped reading when i saw the word Cheat... do us all a favor and go kill urself mkay? tnx.

[babypaupau]

cheating is inevitable in every relationship. people who are in love with their partners can still cheat. intentionally and/or unintentionally. hay naku... some people just dont get it.

[jeff_bonz59]

To the person above,

it seems its ok for you to cheat, at the same time your partner to cheat on you. Well kanya kanya raman na.. if it works on u, it works for you. you can cheat in your relationship as much as your hubby or bf can cheat with you sad..

But for the rest of us here, there are no black and white in cheating. Especially if it involves human emotion.. sakit jud na. If you're a robot not to feel the pain, then feel free to cheat and be cheated then.

For me and for some here who feels the pain of being cheated. Don't tell us that cheating is inevitable in a relationship.. cause its NOT.

[Blackjellybean27]

You really don't deserve her bro. Imagine, after all that you did she still loves you. Kng guy lang ko, ako nalng manguyab sa girl mo. hehehe.
but seriously, karon lang ka cguro naka realize na love mo na sya coz despite everything she's still there.
You gotta thnk it over kng love na feel mo or gratitude. K basin g panakip butas mo naman gf mo k nahan lang ka naa may mu love nimo.
Well, all in all, I hope you learned your lesson. Cheaters are losers. period.