Unsa buhaton nimo if di ka toho-an sa imu parents?

[vixenshoppe]

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Masuya mo? Or unsa? AKO KAY DI JUD KO PAMINAWON SA AKO PARENTS, MURA RAKO BISITA NILA OR BWESITA NILA.. WA MAN PUD KO SALA NILA. NALIBOG KO UNSA AKO BUHATON PARA MU SALIG CLA NKO..

[vixenshoppe]

up up up up

[beyee]

it hurts to the core when ur parents treat u like that but i guess it takes a lot of understanding and a good heart to let them be... don't give them the satisfaction that they are right about you (if they perceive u as something bad or good-for-nothing son/daughter) so take this as a challenge and DO SOMETHING GREAT.. don't do this just because ur seeking for their applause or approval.. do this coz u owe it to urself to be a better person...

[maddox_pitt]

you can try to talk to them and air your feelings...
or you can shrug it off and do something better for yourself... kanang you'll do something not to get any reward from them pero para na sa imuhang kalugalingon...maybe your parents are not just the type who express their feelings and thoughts towards you and your work (maybe) but deep inside they might be proud of you...maulaw lang sila ug ingon

[anm]

show them that you can be trusted... every parent thinks that teenagers are hard to understand cause they have their own principles... it's because of the generation gap... lahi ra ang ilang generation kaysa generation karon... try to understand that...

[jblim1980]

molihok nalang aron later on makita rapod nila nga tinud anay ka...

[joan624]

wow ampay ni sa mga adik..

ila ingnon ila parents na adik sila

di sila tuohan haha

but on a more serious tone, tanaw nimo TS, ngano inana kaha sila? naa kay nabuhat sauna nga d naka masaligan or unsa ba?

[RainDrizzle07]

Let me just share this with you;

During grade school I am always praised sa bahay coz I can learn anything and everything easily, I am already a wide reader bsag grade 1 pa ko. All stuff academically is pretty much easy to me "no sweat" ika nga..of course I am always in the honor roll...

and then pag grade 4 we need to moved sa province... nya balik nsad ko sa city pag grade 6, pagbalik na nako..ddid2 nako kabantay and I really dont know how it happened or what started it, basta tga sugo nila naa jud nay pakapin na "bogo0-a jud nmo oie" "danghag kaayo ka" and all derogatory words..na naabot na jud to xa sa point na ug sogoun ko magkurog ko coz hadlok ko masayop...

then come HS...okey pa to pag 1st year...okey pa kay ko sa tanan..teacher's pet,classroom president, classroom rep for the quiz bee, envied by many and I am very boutan to the infinity and beyond..

And sa school if you are the president, automatic na na tanan...clubs member naka so every month there are activities man..meeting2x dugay mauli...nya bsag ako i explain na mao dugay ko mauli kay tungod nag meeting..dli jud motou.."kay nag biga2x na kuno ko" @_@

and even though I am an achiever it is not enough for them.. my family, excluding my mother...puro japon derogatory remarks ako madungan nla, "kay nganong ingon aneh ra ang grado" blah..blah..blah..
nya ni abot man jud sa point na bsag para nmo you did your best nah..and all yet you are never appreciated...so ang ending..aw nag binogoy ko.. ^_^

kay sa ako hunahuna ato timema gud...sus! mao btaw ni inyong tan aw nako..d cge mao akong buhaton..ka ng magbinoutan ka..ikaw pa mahug na bati... TT_TT

Mo cut nako sa klasi...manamay ug classmate...until nahagbong jud ko..daghan kay ko ug hagbong...pirmi lang ko naa sa guidance...summer ko every year...summer grad jud ko..pag HS...

If mangutana ka na nag regret ko? very much.. dli lang sa akong kaugalingon apil na ang akong mga classmate na akong g among sa akong kaboang... (ingon ana ko ka BI) though it is a clean fun. cut class to explore cebu city and mga bukid2x..lol and play counter strike, still dli na mabalik ang time na ako nasayang..

then looking back, naka realize ko na mao ng for them dli enough akong grades or ako gpakita coz they know na I can still excel..but when you are an emotional teenager then for you...graveh na imong effort..still not enough..dli kaha ka manloud... nya wla kay friend to talk too, will you really be able to realize it?

then while attending mass, homily sa pari nga d jud nako makalimtan was...
(ako translate sa ako nasabtan ug nahinumdoman ah.)

kay."kamo mga anak, cge mo ug ingon na wla kasabot inyong pamilya ninyo, inyong parents, pero kamo inyo ba sad kaha clang nasabtan?"

which is..naigo jud ko pag au... ahahahha...

sometimes bitaw we are so full of ourselves na we failed to see whats the reason why our parents or family is doing it... always and always it is for our best... ^_^ that is why they are doing it..


sa imoha..I think you talk to them or same sa gsutli ni sis beyee, don't give them the right na maka ingon cla sakto cla sa ilang ghuna2x para nmo...^_^


*need to go*

[karwren]

Masuya mo? Or unsa? AKO KAY DI JUD KO PAMINAWON SA AKO PARENTS, MURA RAKO BISITA NILA OR BWESITA NILA.. WA MAN PUD KO SALA NILA. NALIBOG KO UNSA AKO BUHATON PARA MU SALIG CLA NKO..

Padayun lang ug respetar ug love sa ilaha as parents nimu. Honor you mother and father. God honors those who have sincere hearts, pray for it and He'll hear you.

I know sometimes or most of the times lisud, pero buhata lang gyud, si lord raman kabalo kung tininuod na ang imu gibuhat. =)

[Arshen]

prove something to them aron moto.o sila like be successfull in ur life