Friends can be lovers... ex-lovers cant be friends

[GrasyaGwapa]

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Friends can be lovers, ex-lovers cant be friends...


i believe that everything depends on both parties... if they have been friends before.. i can see no reason why they cant be friends again after having a relationship... i believe that after having a relationship, u have grown into each other and have known each other a bit more better if not best... i am friends with my ex's..except for one who was a total jackarse!!!

what do u think

please post your thoughts about this post..
take care!!!

[darkraven]

depende sa situation...

if nastoryaan ninyo og tarong y u part ways, y not...

pero if one of you have done something terible wrong that hurts the other party so much, lisod to be friends...

[maitoots]

ex lovers can also be friends oi.. again, depende na jud na sa break up.. naa man daghan na after break up ilang ex nahimo nla best friend

[GrasyaGwapa]

exactly.. most people dont believe that having a relationship after a relationship will work out.. depende jud na sa usag usa diba??

[Beth-MAVPS]

depende sa situation...

if nastoryaan ninyo og tarong y u part ways, y not...

pero if one of you have done something terible wrong that hurts the other party so much, lisod to be friends...

i couldn't agree more! well said dark...

A lot depends on why you broke up. Anytime there is a restraining order, no friendship can come. But yes, after a considerable amount of time passes, after you have both really moved on. Yes, you can be friends.I say, the two big reasons why normal people that have had an average break up with no restraining orders, cant stay friends are 1st maybe u aren't done dating or second you aren't done breaking up.

And I think the real question might be why would you want to?

Is wanting to be friends now a subconscious excuse to be around this person so you can find closure on unresolved things? Is wanting to be friends now, really a product of guilt you have for how you were as a partner? Do you feel you owe your ex, at the very least, your friendship?

If you truly want to be friends with your ex, it should be because you like him as a friend....mao ra na dili kay basin mangita lang ka ug news unsa nay nahitabo niya esp if ang imohang ex nagmalipayon na....if he was indeed pain in the ass then move on, why makigfriends pa man ka niya god ....

[m.garz]

aw depende sad sa break up.. ug sa situation

[GrasyaGwapa]

couldnt have said it any better Beth... hehehehe with that jack arse of an ex that i had.. i did have a retraining order against him.. all others.. are all good.. hehehehe i posted this topic man gud for the sake of those who are still trouble on whether they should keep the friendship after the "boyfriend-girlfriend" phase... and to those who are inlove with their bestfriend but are too scared to sacrifice the friendship that they already have... u will never know whats going to happen if u dont take the risk...

[Beth-MAVPS]

couldnt have said it any better Beth... hehehehe with that jack arse of an ex that i had.. i did have a retraining order against him.. all others.. are all good.. hehehehe i posted this topic man gud for the sake of those who are still trouble on whether they should keep the friendship after the "boyfriend-girlfriend" phase... and to those who are inlove with their bestfriend but are too scared to sacrifice the friendship that they already have... u will never know whats going to happen if u dont take the risk...

well naa mn pd ko jackarse ex bf b4 hehe pero if makig amigo sya balik nako okay ra man ko as long as naka moved on na gyod ming duha para lay mahayay ba.....if worth it pa imo ex nga amigohon why not db?ani na lang make sure nga ur done dating wid that person, make sure dat ur done breaking up. And then, after that is passed, make every effort to maintain at least a casual friendship if this is someone who is in your life anyway. If this is a person who is part of your circle of friends, someone that you are bound to bump in to time and time again, someone that your friends know and will continue to socialize with, make it easy on everyone including yourself. Be a grown up, have some maturity, suck it up if you have to, and really try.

[GrasyaGwapa]

well naa mn pd ko jackarse ex bf b4 hehe pero if makig amigo sya balik nako okay ra man ko as long as naka moved on na gyod ming duha para lay mahayay ba.....if worth it pa imo ex nga amigohon why not db?ani na lang make sure nga ur done dating wid that person, make sure dat ur done breaking up. And then, after that is passed, make every effort to maintain at least a casual friendship if this is someone who is in your life anyway. If this is a person who is part of your circle of friends, someone that you are bound to bump in to time and time again, someone that your friends know and will continue to socialize with, make it easy on everyone including yourself. Be a grown up, have some maturity, suck it up if you have to, and really try.

actually... im already married.. to the greatest man alive..atleast thats what he is to me, my husband... i dont want to associate with that jackarse of an ex na jud ever!!! unforgiveable ang iyang gibuhat... oh well.. HIS LOSS not mine!! hahahahahah pero my other ex's.. yes... they are very good friends.. one of them is actually my best friend..

[ronz_rodz]

hmmm murag slightly correct hehehe... kay akong ex friend unta nako but likay nalang ko kay tungod selosa akong wife so mao wa nalang ko padayon nga makig friend...