doing the right thing.. "???"

[cloudcaptor]

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i got back with my ex, cuz she can't stand the pain seeing(or even juz thinking) me w/ another girl.. and masakitan man sad ko everytime i hear from my family what she's been doing just to forget me. i took care of her and i've been faithful to her for 4 years, that's why i just can't ignore her. but things changed and i've fallen out of love. that's why we broke up.

right now i'm so in love w/ an old friend, but i had to let go of her cuz i feel so guilty everytime we're together. i still think about my EX, i still worry..

am i doing the right thing? letting go of the one i love juz so i'll stop hurting my EX. my Ex knows i got back w/ her cuz i don't want to hurt her, and she knows i'm still in love with my friend but even with that she's still willing to do everything juz to have me back..

[dropdeadgorgeous]

i think the best person to answer your question is yourself bro...
i was once in the same situation as that of your ex before. i had a 4 yr relationship, my ex fell out of love i guess, nya iyang friend iyang gi-uyab ron... the only difference sa atong situation kai wa nah nakigbalik aqoeng ex nqoe...

so, ani ni xa... you have to be sure if love ba japun nimu imung ex.. dili kai makigbalik ra ka niya tungod kai naluoy ka. don't confuse yourself... love is different from pity... but if i am to say, mas preferrable jud kung ang imung pili-on kai ang nag-love nimu kaysa imung love.. because in the long run, you'll learn to love her (ex) again...

[cloudcaptor]

thanks dropdead.. im trying my best not to confuse myself and even tried letting both of them go.. my situation before was i tried to go back to my ex and we end up arguing again and i end up going out with my friend again. it was almost like a cycle,i keep goin back to my ex cuz i can't be happy being w/ my friend..

i hate it cuz my friend was my dream girl and she's almost so perfect for me, but i can't lie to her my cuz ex still bothers me. though my friend and i made an agreement to completely cut off any communication we have, i just can't keep my promise.. i still think of her(friend) everyday..

[maitoots]

kalisud ba ani imo sitwasyon bro oi.. mura man ka torn btween two lovers. i also agree with dropdead, if i am to choose, ill stay with the one who loves me. maybe, just maybe your dreamgirl is kutob ra jud sa dream and in the long run you'll find out that dream will always be dreams. i think, stick lang sa with your ex which you get back with, but if the time comes pd that it's hurting you already maybe then you can let go na kay unfair pd kaau sa imo gf.. if she truly love you she will understand ra..

[reishoto]

its not love ure feeling with your ex, and u urself had answered it. it pity, its 4 words still that only has a paper thin difference with love.

u deserve more than happiness from old memories, and she deserves a love that is more than just experiencing having u back. love should be a reciprocating thing, love somebody, and have her love back.

cheers...

[ayee]

tsk3. kalisud anah ui!
maybe u should talk to ur ex, and clear things up between both of u!
follow ur heart bro! trust me! 'nd u'll be hapi! u know!, everything is not permanent in this world! dont wait that ur friend will just easily fade! so tok to ur ex, 'nd stay wid ur friend whom u realli luv 'd most!

[blackbutterfly74]

i hate it cuz my friend was my dream girl and she's almost so perfect for me, but i can't lie to her my cuz ex still bothers me. though my friend and i made an agreement to completely cut off any communication we have, i just can't keep my promise.. i still think of her(friend) everyday..[/quote]

Do u think ur friend also have feelings for u?wat if wala?basig masakitan lng ka?but if she also loves u then fight for it..bout ur ex just explain to her na if magbalik mu malipay ba xa?kun makabaw xa nga wa nka malipay sa inu relationship?its really hard for a relationship to go on if la na malipay ang usa..if ur ex truly loves u she will let u go...

[cloudcaptor]

aww my friend did love me, i don't know now, maybe dili na.. after all i did to her leaving her then getting her back na pud, she always did forgive me til the time na she became my girlfriend for a very very short time ra jud cuz i can't take the guilt feeling na i'm so happy being with her then knowing na my ex is suffering cuz i left her. so i broke up with my friend we became friends nalng but during that time cge ra ko ignor sa akong ex, til nka decide na ko na end na namo asta among friendship cuz nkig balik nlang ko sa akong ex.. haayyy..

thanks guys

[|nCuBabE]

naa ra gyud na nimo bro.. timbang-timbanga lang bro kinsay masbug.at then where ka mas happy

[KASAAC]

bro I think love gihapon nimu ang imung EX because kung dili na, as in TOTALLy fell out of love najud ka sa iyaha dili naka makahuna-huna ug kaayuhan para niya...hesitant ka sa present gurl nimu because you still have feelings for your ex