For those guys who are in a relationship right now:
1.) Do you believe that both of you must have a equal & same feelings of love to one another?If yes or no. then how & why?
2.) Which one of you who has a deeper & unconditional love? You or your partner (GF/BF)? How?
My prerogative answers:
1.) No, I dont believe on equal love. Either you or your partner (gf/bf) love her/him very much. There should be someone (not both of you) who has a greater feelings of love. Nature's rule, "A giver will not be possible if no receiver" thats the true meaning for me of "give and take" or "mutual relationship." It's a role that we can't choose, but we can do better things with it.
That's why break-ups is inevitable bcoz its our fault in the first place why we kept on wanting what our partners don't have. We often say "Ohh I wish she's/he's like this that", "Damn it! why are you so insensitive", "Why can't you do this and that like others would normally do"bla bla bla bla...! We are just concentrating on what we want better rather than be thankful enough for what we already have which is our partner's unaware ability to make us feel and give true love.
2.) I believe it's me! How would I know that it's me? well, you will feel that the person whom you always want to be before is gradually changing your ability to love and to be loved by someone. Things that I do now for her always fascinate me, things that I'm certain about who I am or what am I is now irrelevant to me. Sometimes I would say "Hmmm why I am so eager to know where she is and what she's doing right now", "Why she's not answering my text or calls, Im going nuts!"bla bla bla bla.....
Let's just say that my gf is a type of person who is passive & who does not show or open things up to me or even to others...She is not that expressive and communicative with her thoughts and feelings. If you want to know something you must ask for it or you'll left with all presumptions as to why, what & how.