what would you do if you were in my situation???

[shaine_d]

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hi guys!!!!

i am now married but im not happy bec. na force ra ko nga mag pakasal.ani nga guy bec. of religion where not catholic man then kung dili ko mag pakasal mabutang sa peligro ang katudanan akung papa wala pame gi panganak naa nana iyang katugdanan sa simbahan.then karon im in love my officemate his nice gentle man super dooper intelligent,responsible then stable na..i dnt know f he loves me too basta whenever his around im happy then his good sad sa akoa then i have this instinct nga he feels the same way too but lagi nag pugong lang sya bec. sa akung situation na married na then naa nasd bb...what would you do if you were in my situation..then will still choose you own happiness than the happiness of you father..huhuhhuh

[Fern]

@shaine....

be more specific sa imung situation para maka sabot mi tanan.

years of marriage, children, sekslife, etc... wahat ever

[shaine_d]

wala pame kaabot ug 1 year married bali last year lang gyd me nagpakasal..then naa nako isa bb girl

[papilicious]

bitaw, how many years naman mo married, i assume taud taud napud kay nana gud mo baby... wala gyud ka mo fall in love niya? do you hate your husband? maybe infatuation lang na imo sa imo office mate ky i guess wala ka kaagi ana before sa imo younger years kay you are meant to be married naman kaha sa imo husband

[jelousofthe1]

..imo nlng unta gipanindigan nga di jud ka mopakasal...coz u know man from the start nga di jud ka malipay...and marriage is a lifetym commitment...as in no turning back

[Fern]

@TS.... waht do you want to do?

unsa man ma think nga solution ani?


BTW @shaine_D.... dont assume nga ganahan sad cya sa imu.... basin ni baga sad imung atay sa pag think lang ana. assuming sad tingale ka nga hot ka nuh

[elvandesantos]

sori sis. pro mura totol ko nmo. panindigan nlng gyud na nmo imong bana. dont just think of yourself. tan-aw nmo, unsa kaha ma-isip sa bata pag dako... think about the child. ni enter nman ka.

[jrvillacortz]

bitaw sakto man panindigan nlng jud nimu imong bana..dont think of urself nlng...para sa inyong bb...that's the best thing to do para walay gubot..pro kung magginahi ka ug ulo it's ur CHOICE...peace!! just a thought..

[j()nz]

sis, kay nana man jud na kasal naman jud ka, panindigi nalang...i believe nga makalearn raka to love him if you'd want it...

[tophat]

granted nga love nimo si ofismate ug love sab ka niya..unsaon man na ron nga married na man ka nya may anak pa? ipha kuno ug pilay masakitan ug pilay malipay if u do what u want? be willing to sacrifice na lang kay..marid na man gud. kaya na nimo ...maski unsa nga religion..prayers are powerful. the soul is immortal..basin kamo na unya sa next life....pray...