She said yes but not now lang sa daw~ what's the meaning?

[highrise]

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i've met this girl from a common friend and we got along very well together. it started from texting then phone calls then meeting her (but with a group) and later on we're going out on our own na. everything is so fine and she even knew that i have the intentions of courting her ( i told her personally). then fast forward, i proposed to her and her answer was "yes but di lang sa karon". it's somewhat vague but i understand her.

there are two reasons:

1.) the time that we first communicated was also the time that she broke up with her ex-bf. that's the very reason why our friend gave me her number but i knew it a little late na, i was already courting her during that time. we're in constant communication for two months na and seeing each other constantly for the last month. i can see that murag wa pa jud siya nakatotally get over with her ex but she's getting better day by day, unlike kadtong first time namo pagmeet nga klaro kaayong gasakit. our friend also told me that she's happy with me.

2.) aside from that, she told me she wants to get to know me more pa daw. she is the type of a woman na "traditional". i mean she just won't rush into relationship after relationship, in short, sigurista and she wants a quality relationship jud (which i'm looking too). ingon sa among friend that hadlok lang daw siya nga magbago ko if maging kami na. after all, both of us had two serious relationships before.

i totally understand her and i'm willing to wait. the dilemma now is that it seems that i'm rushing. maybe it's the result of being out of any bf-gf relationship for a long time (almost 2 years ko wala gf), i just like/want her so much but i have good and honest intentions towards her. apart from that, i'm now acting as if kami na and she reciprocates it (she never says no most of the time). though i'm initiating it all, sige lang siya tando.

should i ask her again? if so, how soon? no violent reactions please. i just need some inputs to help me clear up my mind. i also want to at least limit my being too impatient.

[Sol_Itaire]

it's called exclusively dating without the commitment (yet).

[crischee]

I think you should try to give yourselves more time to know each other better jud..for me, 2 mos. seems long enough but maybe for your girl's case, she might need more than 2 mos. to clear her past issues.. you can tell man pud siguro through the other person's attitude towards you, or even, sa iya body language, if a person is ready to have a serious relationship with you or not. be keen lang jud and sensitive to evrything that she says or does.. girls will definitely give you the "GO" signs man if nahan na kaayo mi sa guy..hehehe... maybe by next month, you can try to have a serious talk with her again... keep your cool bro..good luck!n God bless!

[rockford_fosgate09]

under observation paka ana brad

[Dondon]

Mao na tawag probationary period wahehehe.

[corexx]

it means yes pero not now lang sa..

i mean, don't overanalyze.. enjoy your time together, have fun.. kahibaw ko lisod pugngan ang ga.baha natong gipang.bati labi na if in.love na jud ka, pero if in.love jud ka wait for her lang.. at least ni yes siya nimo, diba?

ako tawn bisan no wala pa jud..

[motchkatt]

aw kaduha-duhaan pa cgro ka bro hekhekhek..

[joan_of_arc324]

it means she likes you and she sees herself to have u officialy as her bf but she is not ready to have that label yet..be happy nlang, at least hayag2x na gamay and be patient lang sad, ikaw ra nag ingon na u are acting as if gf na nmu cya, take it slow...

[cp103]

i've met this girl from a common friend and we got along very well together. it started from texting then phone calls then meeting her (but with a group) and later on we're going out on our own na. everything is so fine and she even knew that i have the intentions of courting her ( i told her personally). then fast forward, i proposed to her and her answer was "yes but di lang sa karon". it's somewhat vague but i understand her.

there are two reasons:

1.) the time that we first communicated was also the time that she broke up with her ex-bf. that's the very reason why our friend gave me her number but i knew it a little late na, i was already courting her during that time. we're in constant communication for two months na and seeing each other constantly for the last month. i can see that murag wa pa jud siya nakatotally get over with her ex but she's getting better day by day, unlike kadtong first time namo pagmeet nga klaro kaayong gasakit. our friend also told me that she's happy with me.

2.) aside from that, she told me she wants to get to know me more pa daw. she is the type of a woman na "traditional". i mean she just won't rush into relationship after relationship, in short, sigurista and she wants a quality relationship jud (which i'm looking too). ingon sa among friend that hadlok lang daw siya nga magbago ko if maging kami na. after all, both of us had two serious relationships before.

i totally understand her and i'm willing to wait. the dilemma now is that it seems that i'm rushing. maybe it's the result of being out of any bf-gf relationship for a long time (almost 2 years ko wala gf), i just like/want her so much but i have good and honest intentions towards her. apart from that, i'm now acting as if kami na and she reciprocates it (she never says no most of the time). though i'm initiating it all, sige lang siya tando.

should i ask her again? if so, how soon? no violent reactions please. i just need some inputs to help me clear up my mind. i also want to at least limit my being too impatient.

It all boils down to the patience, patience, and more patience.... Don't rush things bro. Try to asses yourself daw bro why your rushing things, and your reason nga wala kay uyab for 2 years na is not good enough, mabaw ra kaayo na nga reason, especially since you said your looking for a long term relationship. There's nothing wrong w/ what your doing bro, just learn to manage your emotions better. Don't worry, what your feeling right now is practically normal, just learn to manage your emotions better lang jud.

[eunixx]

ok na mo uy. bonding nalang kulang ninyo.