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    Default When can you say that you have waited enough?


    our story goes like this...
    we were in the relationship...
    a kind of relationship wherein it's a may-december affair with a matching third-party scenario...
    later on, that person broke up with me and the other half...
    but the communication was still there...
    i keep on texting that person in the hope that we could make amends...
    that person replies "can you wait 'til my heartaches ends?"
    i followed and we became friends...
    whenever that person needs my help, i'm there to help...
    until one night, we asked for each other's lovelife status...
    i told that person that i'm still waiting in vain here on my end...
    that person replied "naa man ko someone sa office right now, pero i don't want to commit"
    i told that person that we already talked about me waiting...
    that person told me to move on...
    OUCHHHH!!!!!
    was that the go signal for me to stop waiting?
    can i say now that i have waited enough?
    what do you think guys?
    any advices/opinions are welcome...

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    you can pretend that you did not hear him / her say " you move on " and DIE waiting OR you will turn your back and live your life.
    there is a lot in store for you.
    in the first place, you were the only one waiting...
    get over him / her.
    put yourself together.
    wear your smile, put on your best shirt and go places where love is waiting for you.
    you don't go chasing love.

    love must find you.
    Last edited by elvishtattoo; 05-22-2009 at 11:20 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justin08 View Post
    our story goes like this...
    we were in the relationship...
    a kind of relationship wherein it's a may-december affair with a matching third-party scenario...
    later on, that person broke up with me and the other half...
    but the communication was still there...
    i keep on texting that person in the hope that we could make amends...
    that person replies "can you wait 'til my heartaches ends?"
    i followed and we became friends...
    whenever that person needs my help, i'm there to help...
    until one night, we asked for each other's lovelife status...
    i told that person that i'm still waiting in vain here on my end...
    that person replied "naa man ko someone sa office right now, pero i don't want to commit"
    i told that person that we already talked about me waiting...
    that person told me to move on...
    OUCHHHH!!!!!
    was that the go signal for me to stop waiting?
    can i say now that i have waited enough?
    what do you think guys?
    any advices/opinions are welcome...

    go signal na jud na bro. love is not selfish - kung kamo jud, then it shouldnt be that way - it shouldnt be onesided..
    and life is too short, you cant spend your whole life waiting, for God made us for a special purpose..
    go find the right one God has intended for you!
    Last edited by Abing; 05-23-2009 at 12:06 AM. Reason: hehe

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    "Enough".. it's when you've exhausted everything out and you get to the point when you wake up one morning and realize you're tired of waiting...
    That's it!learn from the past.
    as long as you know you did everything.
    no regrets, you'll sleep sound at night.
    YOU wont think of things you might have done from the past.

    one day you'll learn to pick up yourself and realize you're again loving...

    live,laugh and love.

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    daghang klase sa waiting, BINGO, LOTTO, jai-alai og uban pa... 50-50 ray purohan anang waiting bosa hununga na imong waiting kay naa pay daghan diha na angay atimanon... mao lang akong ikadalit kanino.. maayong adlaw...

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    Not enough of waiting. i guess, ayaw hunong if you really love her.
    Pero why waiting in vain, dili nman ka love sa iyang gipakita.
    Friendship ra man iyang feelings.. Sakto siya nga nga move on nalang.
    Until my heartaches end? pero naa man d ai siya'y lain sa office, nya afraid og commitment pa jud.
    Make up your mind Brad.

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    dont let other people become your priority.. if you're just an OPTION in their lives...

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    Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.

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    so obvious that you should move on coz the person you are expecting to be there at the end of the line is no longer emotionally available for you coz she/he has found someone else...
    "People who love to eat are always the BEST people."
    Julia Child

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    Don't wait in vain bro. She haven't done anything to prove something to you, you deserve someone better

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