extended family

[odlot sa gabi]

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mao ni ang scenario

You are the only breadwinner at home.Your mom lives with you and you have a sibling who now have a family of her own but the husband only earns minimum wage..

Your mom obliges you to help your sibling and yet your mom knows that your salary is just enough for you to pay your rent and some other bills..

How will you react to your mom and not hurt her for your answer?

[bonju]

Ingnon ra nimo nga kung naay sobra di mu tabang ka kung wala pasensya lang sa sunod na lang....

[meimei16069]

of course, you have to talk to her. hinayi lng gud. mkasabot man na. xempre, you have your own life but helping is not bad man.. cgurado.a nga kaya pd nmu.. pwd man nmu suportaan imu sibling. but not too much, mag anad. mag salig.. ok?

[T0xic]

again..again..again....wa kaayo ko ka understand...nag rent ramo ug house together sa imong mama and sister ug iyang family? unya ikaw tanan nag bayad sa inyung house? and ganahan pajud imong mama nga mutabang ka sa imong sister?

[patriarch18]

again..again..again....wa kaayo ko ka understand...nag rent ramo ug house together sa imong mama and sister ug iyang family? unya ikaw tanan nag bayad sa inyung house? and ganahan pajud imong mama nga mutabang ka sa imong sister?

That's the point... kasabot man diay ka...

[T0xic]

clarifying lang. well anyway, tell your mom nga hinay hinay lang sah kay minus ang kontra. explain, i'm sure makasabot. if not, show them your payslip or sya ang pa budget sa money.

[apps]

tabang as long as kaya sa imo bulsa. if not tell ur mom para dli mag expect na daghan kag money

[Tirong-say]

sakto gyud motabang lang kutob ra sa mahimo...............

[Soul Doctor]

learn to say no sometimes.
they will respect you for that.
but do it in a way that you will not hurt their feelings.
give them a certain percentage or whatever is the excess.
But if theres none, then just say no.

[jamzy]

well if naa jud sobra sa budget.. ok ramn mo tabang pero dli lang sad permi kay magsalig jud na ang hubby sa imo sister...