Hello Istoryans, sharing an article I've read somewhere. Enjoy Reading!
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He loved her.
He's never loved ANYONE the way he loved her.
Hell, no one has ever loved anyone the way he loved her.
He'll never get over her, as long as he lives.
Unless he chooses to quit being such a wuss.
Yes, you've all met him. The Guy Who Can't Get Over His Ex. It could be a woman he was with for ten years or just two months. Whatever the case, she left a permanent mark on his heart and time doesn't seem to be healing it at all.
No woman will be able to live up to the memory of The Ex. Why? Because no one can compete with a memory. You see, you are a real woman, with flaws and imperfections. You have needs and wants that he'll have to fulfill. If he loves you, he'll have to risk getting hurt.
He'd much rather live in the past. It's safer there.
It hurts. The man you are growing to care about is mourning someone else. Maybe he doesn't even love her anymore...he just can't get over his bitterness. Whatever the case, she's the "other woman" and it feels a whole lot like he's cheating.
Have you ever listened to a man rattle on about a past love, then met her? Isn't it strange to see she's actually HUMAN? She's not some goddess in a long, white gown, with a glow all around her. She's a walking, talking, breathing human being and, if she knew how much he talked about her it would...
Well...
Creep her out.
Some of these men eventually find their way out of the madness. They get over the past and start living in the future...with a new woman who eclipses that old love. But God forbid THAT woman ever leave them. Then, what happens? They spend the rest of their lives whining about her?
Is it possible some men love once...and can never get over that love?
Or does everyone eventually recover?