Holding on and letting go...

[jeanine11280]

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You have a long distance relationship...for three years you manage to keep it aflame eventhough it was not all bed of roses...you made promises to each other...you build dreams of future together...it seems that the world revolves only because there was the two of you...time changes and requires you to adjust to something you are not accustomed to...and you're hurt...though you know that the change was for both of you...for your future together...you're still hurt...and though you feel that there is a light at the end of the dark tunnel you can't seem to reach out...and sometimes you don't want to reach out because you are afraid...because at the back of your mind a thought keep nagging that you might be wrong...What would you doWhen do you hold onWhen do you let goHow can one know that the love they have is worth fighting for

[r3roble]

you wouldn't know unless you try...

holding on and letting go depends on the two of you... if the flame is still burning and the iron is still hot, then why let go?

as long as the two of you are holding each other eventhough you're far apart, there's no need to worry, just continue loving and nourishing it...

[iamcreamier]

...major neh nga probs...char kau ang story...makahilak koh!...

[midnight_loner]

to let go of someone is really hard...though holding on gives you so much pain...

it is like holding a broken glasses...either you let go of it to free yourself from pain...or hold on to it to feel pain?

where do you stand?

well ako...i hold unto it...though the pain is killing me lot but i know someday it will make me invincible

[jlodarl]

sakto c midnightt loner holding on gives u so much pain I been there and the relationship na extend pa two years.. mao gihapon ang situation cant see any changes or even just ang gamay na light of hope. I decided to let go.. it hurts but u need to.

[jblim1980]

letting go of someone you love is painful but if letting someojne is the solution to keep ur lives peaceful so its better to let go

[lady_blackrose]

ur the only one who can answer ur question sis... just think of it this way... if u hold on...ask urself if he is really the right one?u know if he is if u find urself thinking about it a couple sleepless nights and just the thoughts of loosing him makes u feel terrible...and if u let go...ask urself this... are u sure about it?coz if u dont...then dont...coz once u let him go..he might found someone else...and when u are about to win him back...it might be too late coz theres no turning back. life is full of choices sis but u should be wise enough to decide. remember...u can never undo the past.

[skin_101]

lisod dyud ni na situation bah..ka.relate au ko! hayzzz

[CASHFLOW]

to let go of someone is really hard...though holding on gives you so much pain...

it is like holding a broken glasses...either you let go of it to free yourself from pain...or hold on to it to feel pain?

where do you stand?

well ako...i hold unto it...though the pain is killing me lot but i know someday it will make me invincible

sakto jd ni..very well said

[jeanine11280]

to let go of someone is really hard...though holding on gives you so much pain...

it is like holding a broken glasses...either you let go of it to free yourself from pain...or hold on to it to feel pain?

where do you stand?

well ako...i hold unto it...though the pain is killing me lot but i know someday it will make me invincible

thanks sis...after careful evaluation of things in my relationship..I will hold on and help to keep the fire burning...actually I cannot really say I am in pain right now..my bf and I did not have a fight...I was just sort of bored of waiting for him at the end of the tunnel that I forgot it was me who got him into it in the first place...anyway, I am now enlightened..I know I will achieve what I dreamed of in God's own time...what is important right now is that I feel he is the one for me..I envision a life with him in the future...he is truly my heart's desire..I also know the fact that he is doing everything he can just to realize the dreams we have for each other..and I will renew my trust in him and God..